902: The Enby of All with Robyn Holdaway

Lez Hang Out | A Lesbian Podcast

Lez Hang Out

Tv & Film, Society & Culture, Personal Journals

4.7 • 545 Ratings

🗓️ 16 September 2025

⏱️ 71 minutes

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Join our Patreon to unlock 25+ full-length bonus episodes, ad-free weekly episodes, mp3 downloads of our original songs, exclusive Discord access, and more! You can also support the show by grabbing a cozy fall sweater at bit.ly/lezmerch & picking up Lez-ssentials songs on Bandcamp. Welcome back to Lez Hang Out, the podcast that is begging for Britney Spears to release the non-binary edition of “I’m Not A Girl, Not Yet A Woman”. This week, co-hosts Leigh (@lshfoster) and Ellie (@elliebrigida) hang out with non-binary actor Robyn Holdaway (@robynholdaway) who you may recognize as Layla from Netflix’s Sex Education. Robyn is a prolific voice actor, as well as an educational creator on TikTok where they make videos with their wife about everything from exploring gender and sexuality to navigating physical and mental health challenges. We talk with Robyn about LGBTQ+ representation across media, the differences between realistic/accurate representation and idealistic representation, and what it means to actually become the representation they wish they’d seen when they were younger. In examining the intersection of sapphic and non-binary identities, Robyn discusses the (unfortunately unsurprising) amount of backlash they’ve received online for explaining the meanings of words like ‘sapphic’ using gender-inclusive (and completely accurate) language. From there Robyn dives into explaining their non-binary identity and why their marriage doesn’t feel particularly ‘sapphic’ due to Robyn’s “Gomez Addam’s”-style masculinity, and we consider our own gender identities– concluding that Leigh’s gender is “Tiny Dad Mom” and Ellie’s is “Rainbow Unicorn Overalls”. Give us your own answers to our Q & Gay on Instagram and follow along on Facebook, TikTok, and BlueSky @lezhangoutpod. Email us @lezhangoutpod@gmail.com. Connect with us individually: Ellie Brigida (@elliebrigida). Leigh Holmes Foster (@lshfoster). Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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0:00.0	Les hang out
0:02.4	And let's talk about what lesing's about
0:05.8	And let's listen to two hesky and shout
0:09.4	Let's hang out
0:13.1	Hey everyone
0:15.0	Welcome back to Les Hang Out
0:17.2	And I'm going to apologize in advance for this one Ellie
0:19.3	But the podcast, that's
0:20.9	not a man and not a woman. I'm not a man. Why has nobody given us the non-binary Britney Spears edit?
0:34.0	I'm asking for all of us. From the West Coast, I'm Lee Holmes Foster. And from the East Coast,
0:38.8	I'm Ellie Bichita. To those you've been with us through this whole journey, thank you as always
0:41.4	for listening. If you're a new listener, welcome, we're excited to have you here. Here's what's
0:44.9	happening this week. This week in the Lesdom is a place for you can touch base each episode
0:53.2	about things going on with the podcast or otherwise. We are so excited because we are relaunching our Les Hangout trivia with our friends at Cruising Pod. We're going to be hosting at Henrietta Hudson. Sarah Gabrieli, who's the host of cruising, will be the host there. We personally will not be there, so I don't want you to get too excited about us being there.
1:11.1	However, it's going to be the same less hangout trivia, super exciting, good queer community,
1:17.9	really fun night. And that's going to be at Henrietta's on September 28th and October 26th and
1:24.1	November 30th. The first one is L word trivia. Second will will be Buffy Trivia. And our third one, we pop princesses, was our new trivia we're putting together because since we've done our Lesshangout trivia, there have been so many gay pop stars that we had to do a full trivia. You can get your tickets at bit.le slash Lword trivia, NYC.
1:44.8	We also want to remind you, we are still going to be putting out our Patreon bonus episodes in season 9.
1:50.3	You can catch all of the ones that we have out so far.
1:53.0	We've done so many bonus episodes.
1:55.4	You can check out all of our thoughts on things we don't have time to get to in the regular feed at bit.
2:01.2	dot lee slash les patreon.
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