Welcome to the Delight Your Marriage podcast, the show where you hear from amazing and inspiring

wives sharing their struggles, triumphs, and advice for this journey called marriage.

Here's your host, Bella Rose.

Hi and welcome.

Thank you so much for joining me. Now, if you're listening to this, the day it's come out,

it's just after Easter, and I think it's a very good opportunity to be understanding forgiveness

in a new way because in our marriages, we have opportunities to forgive pretty much every day.

But then there are those really intense, even tragedies, horrible situations, whether it's

porn addiction or infidelity or even just wandering eyes or maybe a revelation of what happened before you guys

were together that comes up and wreaks havoc on your heart and mind and soul. And we've got a

wonderful guest today. She was on before Kay Bruner and she talks about her experience when the drapes were taken off, the blinds were

taken off, and she was able to find out about her husband's porn use for years as they were

married.

And very, very hard conversation.

And Kay really shares how challenging it is and the absolute just difficulty.

And I want to just start this conversation by saying, one, the fact that you're willing to listen to an audio audiobook that's going to dig into something that's really hard is, I think, very important because I think, you know, no matter what our story is, no matter how we experience this life, there will be hard times.

We can be as positive thinking and righteous as we can be,

but truly there will be really hard times. And I think Kay brings such powerful insights that will help

a wife move through this dark season. And even if you're not

in the midst of a really horrible experience, but maybe you are, you know, needing some insight

on how to forgive your husband for things that, you know, maybe he did before you

were even knew him, but there's still forgiveness that needs to go on. So let's go ahead and dive in

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