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Rach, I want to ask you this question.

Who chased who?

You or your boyfriend or your husband or your husband now, right? Your little boyfriend. Yeah, your boyfriend. Yeah, your boyfriend or your husband.

Your husband now, right?

Your little boyfriend.

The word boyfriend and girlfriend is so weird now.

It does.

For adults.

I completely agree.

I feel like after 30, you kind of, you're like, hey, this is the person who lives with me.

Like I get it now when they're like, oh, I'm just a friend. It's like, what do you want me to call you? My girlfriend? One of their term. Exactly. I don't know. And I don't, here's the deal. Some people do partner. This is my partner. But then that confuses me a little bit if they're not standing right there because I'm like, oh, are you gay? you know what I mean Well I'm talking about We've always had that problem We're on the road

On the road standing right there because I'm like, oh, are you gay? You know what I mean?

Well, we've always had that problem.

We're on the road.

We're separate and people gay.

People say people are gay.

People will say.

I'll bring up, I'll say, oh, my partner, which I mean Todd.

But, but, you know, and I hate to say the gays ruined it. But now you can't say partner because that is gay. Without people thinking it's romantic. Right, right. So now I mean, my co-host for the radio show, I hope. I call him my work husband. Or my work husband. I was going to say, I was like, I mean this in the most respectable way, but y'all a little gay.

I remember distinctly having that conversation with Christy.

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