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How to Be Awesome at Your Job

898: How to Reduce Workplace Drama and Ego with Cy Wakeman

How to Be Awesome at Your Job

How to be Awesome at Your Job

Sharpening, Self-improvement, Meaning, Winning, Development, Money, Interview, Writing, Health & Fitness, Speaking, Mental Health, Success, Wins, Fun, Skills, Business, Careers, Training, Education, Collaboration, Decisions, Career, Selfhelp, Mockaitis, Thinking

4.51.1K Ratings

🗓️ 14 September 2023

⏱️ 47 minutes

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Summary

Cy Wakeman discusses why engagement is overrated and what really drives results. 


— YOU’LL LEARN — 

1) How your ego ruins 2.5 hours of each day. 

2) Three questions for breaking free from your ego. 

3) Why to stop saying “should". 


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— ABOUT CY — 

Cy Wakeman is a drama researcher, international leadership speaker, and consultant. In 2001 she founded Reality-Based Leadership. She is the author of four books: Reality-Based Leadership: Ditch the Drama, Restore Sanity to the Workplace and Turn Excuses Into Results (2010), NY Times Bestseller, The Reality-Based Rules of the Workplace: Know What Boosts Your Value, Kills Your Chances, and Will Make You Happier (2013), No Ego: How Leaders Can Cut the Cost of Workplace Drama, End Entitlement, and Drive Big Results (2017), and her newest release, Life’s Messy, Live Happy

Deemed as “the secret weapon to restoring sanity to the workplace,” Cy Wakeman was voted in the top 100 leadership professionals to follow on twitter for 7 years in a row. In 2021, 2022, and 2023 she topped the Global Gurus list of Top 30 Leadership Professionals across the globe, coming in at #1. 

• Book: No Ego: How Leaders Can Cut the Cost of Workplace Drama, End Entitlement, and Drive Big Results 

• Newsletter: Reality-Based Leadership Newsletter 

• TED Talk: Ditch the Drama – How to Live Happy in a Messy World 

• Website: RealityBasedLeadership.com 


— RESOURCES MENTIONED IN THE SHOW — 

• Book: Consolations: The Solace, Nourishment and Underlying Meaning of Everyday Words by David Whyte 

• Book: Feeling Good: The New Mood Therapy by David Burns 

• Figure: Byron Katie 

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to the How to Be Awesome at Your Job Podcast.

0:04.0

The show where brilliant professionals share how to sharpen the universal skills required to flourish at work.

0:10.0

Enjoy more career fun, wins, meaning, and money.

0:14.0

With your host, Pete Makaitas.

0:19.0

Hello and welcome to episode 898 with Si Wakeman.

0:23.0

Boy, if there is some drama in your workplace, Si cuts to the heart of the matter,

0:28.0

identifying the very thought patterns we have that give rise to this

0:32.0

and enhance communication approaches that can address it effectively.

0:36.0

So you'll learn one, how your ego ruins two and a half hours of every day.

0:40.0

Two, three questions to break free from that ego.

0:43.0

And three, why does it stop saying should?

0:46.0

So if you want to check out the show notes or the transcript or the links to items that we've referenced,

0:50.0

please drop on by awesomeatyourjob.com slash ep898.

0:54.0

And while you're at awesomeatyourjob.com, I recommend you check out some of our goodies,

0:58.0

such as the Goldnugget email list, which provides a summary write-up of the actionable wisdom size shared.

1:03.0

In a quick email, you can read in about two or three minutes,

1:06.0

as well as unlocking the whole vault, the archive of 898 of these summary goldnugget write-ups,

1:12.0

and those are called the Goldnuggets over at awesomeatyourjob.com.

1:15.0

Now here's a little bit about Si, Si Wakeman is a drama researcher, international leadership speaker,

1:20.0

and consultant. In 2001, she founded a reality-based leadership.

1:24.0

She is the author of four books, a reality-based leadership, ditched the drama,

1:27.0

restore sanity to the workplace, and turn excuses into results.

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