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Havilah's Podcast

89: A Positive No

Havilah's Podcast

Havilah Cunnington

Religion & Spirituality

4.92.2K Ratings

🗓️ 9 October 2018

⏱️ 18 minutes

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Summary

On this week's podcast, we learn about the art of saying yes and no. If we say yes to everything, we aren’t saying “yes” to the things that matter most. Havilah outlines how to use positive “no’s” in our Intentional Boundaries series. A defense mode is when we sense a threat coming. Our brain automatically puts into motion into the 3 F’s category – Fight – Flight – Freeze A discovery mode is when our focus is to open up and to learn. It allows our mind to stay open to new possibilities, concepts and belief systems. The key is to stay in discovery mode! It’s important how we communicate our “no’s”. When we put other people in defense mode by our words, it actually doesn’t allow them to see our positive no. We want them to feel appreciated, valued and to keep them in discovery mode. Book: How to Have a Good Day by Caroline Webb --> You can connect with me online through all the social media links below Facebook: www.facebook.com/mrshavilah/ Twitter: twitter.com/mrshavilah Instagram: www.instagram.com/havilahcunnington/ --> You can also find lots of resources including books, Bible studies, online course and more at truthtotable.com. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/havilah-cunnington/support

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0:00.0

I'm Havela Cunnington and this is Havela's podcast.

0:17.6

I'm excited that you're tuning in today.

0:19.7

You know, this podcast was created by Truth The Table.

0:23.0

So I can have a place to share my heart, biblical truth, simple lifestyle leadership, as well

0:28.9

as just connect with my table community, my table tribe.

0:33.6

So I hope that you'll spend a few minutes with me as we jump in to whatever God has put

0:39.0

on my heart this week.

0:40.9

And don't forget that you're never too far gone from where God wants to take you.

0:46.0

You are loved, you are seen, and he wants to desperately know everything about you.

0:51.2

I love you guys.

0:52.2

Thanks for listening.

0:53.2

Let's jump into this.

0:55.4

So today I want to talk to you about learning a positive know.

1:00.2

You know, the last three months we've been talking about intention.

1:03.0

We've been talking about how important it is to have intention in our lives.

1:06.6

The first month was all about intentional living and the second was about intentional behavior.

1:13.5

And this month is all about having an intentional boundary in our life, intentional parameters

1:19.0

that help us stay healthy and safe and our best self.

1:23.1

So today I want to talk about a positive know.

1:25.4

Now, you know, if you've been in life for a little bit, you've been an adult for a little

1:29.1

bit, you'll know that in life, when you say yes to something, you automatically are saying

1:34.9

no to another.

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