881: I Want What I Want
This American Life
This American Life
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🗓️ 22 February 2026
⏱️ 59 minutes
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Summary
People deciding to do things that most of us do NOT choose to do.
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- Prologue: A new documentary called The Boys and the Bees captures a moment where a six-year-old has a very unlikely wish, and his dad decides to grant it. Host Ira Glass talks with filmmaker Arielle Knight about what happens next. (9 minutes)
- Act One: John Tothill tells the story of Edward Dando, a 19th-century British glutton who would eat hundreds of oysters at a time and then run out on the check. John makes the case that we should all be more like Edward Dando. (15 minutes)
- Act Two: Producer Tobin Low listens in as Evan Roberts calls up an ex for the first time in years and tries to make the case that they should have been friends all along. (16 minutes)
- Act Three: Producer Zoe Chace brings us a dispatch from a courtroom in Texas this week, where on the very first day of a landmark federal trial about Antifa, the judge makes an unusual decision that no one sees coming. (15 minutes)
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| 0:00.0 | A quick warning, there are curse words that are unbeaped in today's episode of the show. |
| 0:05.3 | If you prefer a beeped version, you can find that at our website, thisamericanlife.org. |
| 0:11.5 | There's a new film at the festival is called The Boys and the Bees. |
| 0:15.7 | Just Want to Prize at Sundance. |
| 0:17.6 | And it's about a real family with two sons, the dad's a beekeeper in Georgia. And I talked to |
| 0:23.2 | the filmmaker Ariel Knight. As she pointed out, the two boys are very different. Carver's |
| 0:27.5 | six, Arrows four. Arrow is the youngest and he's kind of always bouncing around. He's |
| 0:34.1 | comedic relief in the film. And Carver is the oldest, and he's a lot more serious, |
| 0:40.9 | he's a lot more thoughtful. Carver is the one who reminds his little brother what the rules are. |
| 0:46.7 | Arrow just breezes past them. And the way all this plays out and his family of beekeepers... |
| 0:52.8 | Arrow has been stung many, many times by bees. And Carver |
| 0:57.3 | has never been stung. And how do you explain that? I mean, you know, Carver is probably always |
| 1:05.3 | paying attention, taking his time, moving slowly. Rules follower. Exactly. |
| 1:16.4 | And the arrow just sort of puts on his suit too fast and there's a bee in there or, you know, |
| 1:20.6 | he steps somewhere where he shouldn't or he's just, you know. |
| 1:25.9 | They have parents who have made a very deliberate choice to spend a ton of time with their kids. |
| 1:28.8 | Birdwatching and fishing and going through the woods and lifting up rocks to see what's underneath them, explaining everything |
| 1:32.2 | about nature. |
| 1:33.9 | And there's a scene that Ariel captured on film of the boys with her dad, Nehemiah. |
| 1:38.7 | So we were wrapping up filming for the day, and Nehemiah, usually in the evening, will check on the bees. |
| 1:46.5 | So he's checking on the bees. |
| 1:48.1 | He's lifting the racks of beehives out of their boxes, and then he gets stung. |
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