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Coaching for Leaders

87: How to Lead Virtually, with Loren Kousaie

Coaching for Leaders

Dave Stachowiak

Business, Management, Careers

4.81.6K Ratings

🗓️ 6 May 2013

⏱️ 29 minutes

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Summary

Loren Kousaie: Microsoft

Almost everyone who leads is doing more influencing of people through technology. Many of us are even working remotely or managing others who work remotely. In this episode, I welcome Loren Kousaie from Microsoft to speak about his extensive experience in leading people virtually over the years – and to offer us suggestions and what we can do better when communicating and leading from a distance.

Here are the questions I asked of Loren:

  • Tell me about your role at Microsoft and how you’re physically spaced from your team.
  • What’s a typical day like for you? Also, what kind of tools are you using to connect with your team?
  • What is different about leading people working virtually than leading in other venues?
  • How do you set expectations with your team about what a remote relationship with you will be like?
  • When you started leading virtually, what was the biggest mind shift you had to make?
  • What would you like to have known about leading virtually that you didn’t when you started?
  • Leadership can be lonely. Leading virtually can be even lonelier – what do you do to stay in community with others, either professionally or personally?
  • What’s a discovery you’ve made about yourself along the way that’s contributed to your success?

“In order to arrive at what you do not know
You must go by a way which is the way of ignorance.
In order to possess what you do not possess
You must go by the way of dispossession.
In order to arrive at what you are not
You must go through the way in which you are not.
And what you do not know is the only thing you know
And what you own is what you do not own
And where you are is where you are not.” -T.S. Eliot

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Do you ever lead anyone virtually? How about have any colleagues that you don't see regularly but interact with online?

0:06.8

Maybe even a family member in today's show. We'll look at some best practices for leading and influencing virtually.

0:14.0

This is coaching for leaders, episode number 87.

0:17.6

Produced by Innovate Learning,

0:20.0

Maximizing human potential. Greetings to you from Orange County, California.

0:29.0

This is coaching for leaders, and I'm your host Dave Stahovia. This is a weekly show to help smart people

0:37.0

improve their communication and leadership skills.

0:40.0

And one of the things I'm always doing with our community is having conversations about what's going on in the world and how can we be more effective as leaders and improve our communication and leadership skills.

0:52.0

And one thing that's been in the media a lot over the last month or so

0:55.7

was the decision by Yahoo to no longer allow employees to telecommute.

1:00.8

And this got me thinking about the you know how leadership has changed in some

1:05.9

ways and of course in some ways not changed on how we're all leading virtually and

1:10.8

some of the positives and negatives about that and got into conversation with a few people in our community. virtually and

1:15.0

ended up talking with one person in particular and thought it would be interesting to

1:20.0

approach this topic in a show and talk about leading virtually and maybe some best practices

1:26.1

for doing it and many of us are even if we're not working in a virtual environment or working from home.

1:34.0

Many of us are leading and influencing people

1:37.8

that are in other locations or that do work from home.

1:41.4

And even if we're not managing them formally,

1:44.0

we are all influencing people all the time.

1:46.6

I look back at my week and I think about all the different time zones

1:49.7

I talked to people in the last week.

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