#864: How to Simplify Your Life in 2026 — New Tips from Anne Lamott, Claire Hughes Johnson, David Yarrow, and Diana Chapman

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🗓️ 6 May 2026

⏱️ 39 minutes

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Summary

Many of us feel like we’re drowning in invisible complexity. So I wanted to hit pause and ask a simple question: What are 1-3 decisions that could dramatically simplify my life in 2026? To explore that, I invited four long-time listener favorites—Anne Lamott, Claire Hughes Johnson, David Yarrow, and Diana Chapman.

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Connect with David Yarrow: Website | Instagram | Twitter | Facebook

David's previous appearance on this show: David Yarrow on Art, Markets, Business, and Combining It All | The Tim Ferriss Show #443

Connect with Claire Hughes Johnson: LinkedIn | Twitter

Claire's book: Scaling People: Tactics for Management and Company Building

Claire's previous appearance on this show: Claire Hughes Johnson — How to Take Responsibility for Your Life, Create Rules That Work, Stop Being a Victim, Set Strong Boundaries, and More | The Tim Ferriss Show #724

Connect with Diana Chapman: Website | LinkedIn | Instagram

Diana's book: The 15 Commitments of Conscious Leadership: A New Paradigm for Sustainable Success, co-authored with Jim Dethmer and Kaley Klemp

Diana's previous appearance on this show: Diana Chapman — How to Get Unstuck, Do "The Work," Take Radical Responsibility, and Reduce Drama in Your Life | The Tim Ferriss Show #536

Connect with Anne Lamott: Substack | Twitter | Facebook | Instagram

Anne's new book: Good Writing: 36 Ways to Improve Your Sentences, co-authored with Neal Allen

Anne's previous appearance on this show: Anne Lamott on Taming Your Inner Critic, Finding Grace, and Prayer | The Tim Ferriss Show #522

Timestamps:

[00:00:00] Start.
[00:02:20] David Yarrow: British photographer in America and an unconventional divorcé.
[00:02:32] The anti-remarriage thesis: why staying single was the boldest simplification of all.
[00:03:19] The unlikely happy ending: ex-spouses who became best friends.
[00:04:58] The friend audit.
[00:06:07] Energy as a luxury brand.
[00:06:34] No agent, no problem: the art of the direct “no.”
[00:07:39] Claire Hughes Johnson: COO, author, and self-described bad simplifier.
[00:07:59] The switch from default yes to default no.
[00:08:39] Root cause analysis on the “yes” problem: earning love through usefulness.
[00:09:21] Arthur Brooks’ flip: think people, not tasks.
[00:10:35] Mission clarity: knowing exactly why you said yes before you walk in the door.
[00:11:16] The “retention exercise”: how Claire negotiated sleep and workouts into her job description.
[00:16:45] Diana Chapman: Conscious Leadership disruptor, professional fear-finder.
[00:17:07] The “whole body yes”: simplicity lives where your inner and outer worlds agree.
[00:17:41] Decision #1: Evicting “should” from the vocabulary entirely.
[00:19:15] Decision #2: The relationship contract — same rules, dramatically less drama.
[00:20:37] The No-Blame Zone: signs on the wall, accountability in the air.
[00:24:02] Curiosity over righteousness, feelings over suppression, play over seriousness.
[00:26:29] How play unlocked a hard conversation.
[00:27:56] Decision #3: Holding two truths — your work matters and the world will survive without you.
[00:30:32] Anne Lamott: 21 books, one husband, and a very heavy 60th birthday.
[00:31:00] Ditching the six-plate act: reclaiming the inner goofball.
[00:32:18] “The point is not to try harder, but to resist less.”
[00:33:18] The belly breath: watching your hand rise as an act of radical simplicity.
[00:33:41] Ram Dass’ heart-nostrils: expanding the spiritual core.
[00:33:59] The third third: borrowed time, intentional days, and tossing boxes out of the plane.

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0:00.0	Hello, boys and girls, ladies and germs. This is Tim Ferriss. Welcome to another episode of the Tim Ferriss show.
0:05.5	This time around, we have a different format from my usual long forum interviews. This is bite-sized
0:11.3	tips from people I love who've been on the podcast. And here's the theme. Many of us feel like we're drowning in complexity.
0:19.2	I think day on day, the world just seems insane,
0:22.8	whether that is with respect to inboxes or decisions or otherwise. Perhaps you're even slipping
0:28.5	in and out of overwhelm. I've been there. So I wanted to hit pause myself, figured some of you
0:33.5	might want to do the same thing, and ask a question, what are a few decisions, say one to
0:37.9	three, that could dramatically simplify my life in 2026? To explore that, I invited four listener
0:44.8	favorites to chime in with their personal stories and what they have done themselves. David Yarrow,
0:50.6	who is one of the world's best-selling fine art photographers. His story is crazy.
0:54.8	Listen to his episode on the podcast, if you want more. He has sold more than $125 million worth of
1:01.8	photographs. There's a lot more to his career. So there's David Yarrow. Claire Hughes Johnson,
1:06.7	one of my favorites also former Stripe chief operations officer that's COO, who helped scale
1:11.9	Stripe from under 200 employees to more than 7,000 employees. Diana Chapman, co-author of the 15
1:19.0	commitments of conscious leadership, and Ann Lamott, New York Times best-selling author of Bird by Bird,
1:24.4	one of my absolute favorite books. She's written much more, of course,
1:32.1	but bird by bird is not only my favorite, but a favorite of many, many people who are simply trying to simplify and do one thing well, one step at a time. Past episodes of this Simplify
1:39.7	series feature lessons from Derek Sibbers, Seth Godin, Martha Beck, Maria Popova, Morgan Housel,
1:45.6	Cal Newport, and many others. So be sure to check those out. But in the meantime, please enjoy
1:49.8	this wide-ranging but intensely practical episode on how to simplify your life.
1:57.5	At this altitude, I can run flat out for a half mile before my hands start shaking.
2:02.3	Can I answer your personal question?
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