85: Your Value Doesn’t Decrease Based on Someone’s Inability to See Your Worth

Trying Not to Care

Ashley Corbo

Mental Health Awareness, Relationships, Personal Journals, Society & Culture, Education, Self Help, Relationship Advice, Mental Health, 868329, Breakups, Trying Not To Care, Self-improvement, Navigating Your 20s, Health & Fitness, Self Help Podcast, Ashley Corbo, Friendship Breakups, Self Growth, Friendship Advice, 20 Something, Self Improvement

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🗓️ 16 October 2023

⏱️ 23 minutes

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Listen to this episode if you find yourself basing your value on what others think. In today's episode, I talk about my experience with past relationships and how I allowed how they treated me to determine my worth.

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0:00.0	Hey, okay, I promise I'll keep this debrief short. So I just had my date with the Bumble
0:05.3	guy, so cute. He surprised me with tickets to see this band I love. Then he got us a spot at
0:10.5	the front so I could actually see. It was amazing, you know, like I really felt good vibes.
0:14.8	Oh, and he sent me a let me know when you get home message. That makes him really hot.
0:19.7	Kindness is sexy. Find it on Bumble. Hi besties welcome
0:39.6	welcome back to try not to care or if you're new here, welcome to Tranad to Care.
0:44.3	The other day I was driving in my car and this thought popped into my head and I remembered
0:50.6	a couple years ago when my ex-boyfriend and I broke up after he cheated on me and left me for the girl he cheated on me with.
0:58.0	I was devastated.
1:00.0	Yeah, but when we broke, I thought I was never going to feel love or be loved again
1:07.8	the way that I thought I was by that boyfriend. Now, he wasn't the best boyfriend to me by any means
1:14.8	just being very transparent here. There was a lot of things in that relationship
1:19.6	that he did wrong and he hurt me a lot but there were some things that he did do right like
1:26.7	he sent me songs that made him think of me he would compliment me which is the bare minimum, but before him I had never experienced that.
1:38.6	No guy before him did those things, so when he did them, I thought it was special something most girls
1:45.4	don't get so after the breakup I thought there's no way I'm going to experience
1:50.8	that again the bar was set so low and I romanticized him and the
1:56.8	relationship so much that I really did believe that the only reason I was
2:00.7	experiencing those things and I was being complimented and I was
2:05.2	being called beautiful was because he saw something special in me.
2:10.3	It wasn't because I deserved those things or because I was those things.
2:14.4	It was because he believed I was.
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