This is Havela Cunnington and this is Havela's podcast.

I'm really excited that you're joining me today because we are going to tackle the topic

of family values.

Now for those of you that don't know who I am or you stumbled across this podcast, I

just want to give you a little insight.

I am a wife, but I'm also a mom of four boys, four crazy wild boys.

They range from ages six all the way up to 11 and so we had four kids in five years and

so there was about five years in that mix.

That was a complete blur.

I can't, I literally don't remember doing certain things unless somebody shows me the

photo and then it's like there's evidence to that I actually did those things like Christmas

and like birthday parties.

I just literally, it was a complete blur.

But what, as I'm coming out of that foggy part of my life and now we have great school

kids and everyone is going to the bathroom on their own, they're wiping on their own,

they're going to bed, they're staying in their beds.

I'm not feeding them with my own body or making them with my own body.

We now are at a place where we're learning to kind of create this family culture and we

know we have, I like to call them the magic years or the golden years, which is this little

window in our life with our kiddos where we end up, our kids aren't in baby stage and

they're not in like hormone stage.

They're just right in that sweet middle where we get to kind of confirm and affirm the

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