84. Giving you thirst traps, age gaps, and spending habits
Give It To Me Straight
Dear Media
4.9 • 2.2K Ratings
🗓️ 30 December 2025
⏱️ 79 minutes
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Summary
So many people want to know what is “okay” these days. Is it okay for your husband to post thirst traps? Is it okay to want a hot body over having a baby? Is it okay to have a 20 year age gap with your partner? Luckily for you, Alex and Jon have all the answers. In this week’s episode, they dive into all the juicy questions they didn’t have time to answer from this year’s topics. It’s the last episode of the year so enjoy the last of Alex and Jon before we head into 2026!
0:00 - Intro
35:43 - Do You Ever Really Move On?
40:40 - Different Spending Habits
42:58 - Babies at Weddings
44:55 - Am I Allowed to Feel Like This?
47:48 - Is It Rude To Watch My Sister’s Baby?
56:08 - My Friend is Obsessed with Her Baby
01:00:09 - I Want A Baby But Also a Hot Body
01:06: 36 - Dating Age Gaps
01:07: 59 - My Ex Invited Me To Therapy
01:11:54 - My Husband Posts Thirst Traps
01:16:29 - Reading Your Secrets
01:17:00 - Recs of the Week
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| 0:00.0 | The following podcast is a dear media production. How many relationships have we saved and how many relationships have we ruined with doing this podcast for four years? You know what? And what's funny is like I'm like, John's a Scrooge, blah, blah, blah. I feel like I'm the one who's always like, just break up. Get divorced. I've been trying to not say that as much. I am. Oh, yeah. Coughing season, fuck it. Break up. |
| 0:28.2 | And welcome back to give it to me straight. |
| 0:29.1 | I'm Alex. And I'm John. |
| 0:30.0 | And we're your gracious, gracious, gracious, gracious host. |
| 0:35.4 | John, this is the last episode of the year. Cool. We're still going to shoot another one for the |
| 0:40.7 | following week, so nothing has changed. I'm just saying, like, it's the last one before the new year. |
| 0:46.7 | I was like, you know, oh, new year. New year. New goals, new me. Yeah, all this, nothing has changed. You're like, |
| 0:51.7 | no, you're still going to be a piece of shit in 2026. |
| 0:55.1 | What do you want to do in the new year? I didn't even think about that. Like, New Year's resolutions. It's crazy because I feel like when you think of the New Year, it feels so far away. But it's really just like, on week. Well, we have another episode out. I mean, not when this episode comes out. Before New Year's? |
| 1:10.0 | This episode is the episode before. |
| 1:12.0 | I just said this is the last |
| 1:13.2 | episode before new years like the day before look at the calendar two days before i believe what's your |
| 1:21.2 | new year's resolution i feel like did i not just ask you that like what i didn't ask you what your |
| 1:25.8 | resolution is but like what do you want to do in the new year you have to answer mine first why am I tired for so I should not be tired Lucy slept the long as she's ever had I know she's an angel ever has last night you good not really because you just worked out that's why I don't know I didn't sit that well last night I. I wish I did. What time did you go to bed? |
| 1:44.7 | 11. |
| 2:02.7 | We used to go to bed at the same time. Not really. Not really. We always did until this past year. I go to bed. It wasn't until we moved back to New York that you started staying up late. That's not late. It's not late. when we work all day i'm like i, I need some downtime. I can't just go from work straight to bed. I don't know how you do that. Because for me, work is fun. |
| 2:09.1 | So I do that like in bed. I'm just like thinking of more ideas and doing more work. Okay. So you didn't |
| 2:15.9 | tell me what your New Year's resolution is. Also watching the notebook doesn't count last night as downtime for me. |
| 2:20.9 | I thought we were going to watch the new episode of Fallout and out of nowhere. |
| 2:23.9 | There is no new episode of Fallout. |
| 2:25.6 | But you didn't know that. |
| 2:27.1 | You didn't know that. |
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