I've been with my husband for 16 years, and I think we've really been arguing well for like three years.

So this episode is filled with just as many what not to do as it is with what to actually do.

I'm talking about picking your battles and knowing when to push and when to back down,

knowing when is the right time for the conversation and when to wait.

I am really big on having a zero

yelling household. You're always allowed to feel how you feel and be honest and express all the

things, but to me, there is never a reason to yell. It's not good energy. It takes things to the

next level and it's just not kind. And we love each other. Even when we are mid-fight, we should still make a commitment to be kind.

So that's what we're getting into today, how to actually argue with your spouse in a way that is

productive and kind and actually resolves it. Arguments are inevitable. The difference is how you handle them.

Today, I'm sharing everything I know about arguing with your spouse in the best way possible.

Let's go.

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Today, we're talking about arguing with your spouse,

but in the best way possible. I know I keep doing these episodes that sound negative, but they're actually really positive. And I promise this is one of those episodes because

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