Okay, okay, let's talk about beauty and beauty standards. I think you need to understand as a woman one of the most important and I know it's not fair. I know it's not fair. Sumee, it's not fair. But one of the most important things that you can do for yourself and your progression in the future is invest in yourself.

By investing in yourself, I mean many things. I mean your education, I mean your mind,

I mean your manifestations, I mean all of it it and if you've watched me and you've

watched my Tik-Tok and you watch my Instagram and you watch me watch me watch me

you know that I'm talking about all of the things but one of the things and I'm not

going to sugar coat and I'm not going to lie one of the things you really need to

invest in is yourself above him above his rent above his business

above his time above his energy is your beauty. Why? Because we as women are judged in this world on our

beauty and we can talk around and around until the cows come home about how it's not about our

beauty, how it's not about this, how we're a person, you know, that is in our own right and we should be celebrated for who we are.

And I love that and that's great and I will never stop developing my mind. The brain won't stop developing because that is after somebody falls in love with your looks, the asset that they will stay in love with an attracted to and that you can grow your children with and your

businesses with I use my brain for that right but let's not be around the bush

the beauty thing gets you through doors and it's an asset but we'll talk about the

controversial parts of beauty in a minute, my baby, okay?

The thing that you need to remember, when you, with all your interior mentality and heart and

best intentions, want to spend money on him and his rent and his future and his

you know endeavors remember that you should be putting into your own beauty

routine you should be putting into your own good eating into your own gym

routine into your own own own own stuff not sharing rent with him who is not even your

husband and is going to waste your time until you're in your mid 30s and you can't have the

kids that you wanted to have and he might move on you should be investing in you because if he does move on and he's not about that life then you are looking like a snack, my love, okay? Because we are judged by our beauty, but this is the first thing I want to

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