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Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

8 DAYS OF DATING OPTIMISM: Meeting Your Half Orange (Day #5)

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Sexuality, Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture

4.5877 Ratings

🗓️ 23 December 2025

⏱️ 59 minutes

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Summary

As we approach the new year, we're bringing you a special series: the 8 days of dating optimism, where we air the top episodes that restored our hope and confidence in finding our person.

Here we are back with day #5: Talking about how to become naturally more magnetic, knowing that it’s not a matter of if you’ll find your person but rather when. We’re joined by Amy Spencer, author of Meeting Your Half-Orange, who shares how she rewired her thinking through dating optimism to attract her perfect other half. If dating has ever felt draining, confusing, or like you’re trying far too hard for very little in return, this episode is your reminder that optimism isn’t naive—it’s strategic, grounding, and incredibly attractive. Enjoy!

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0:00.0

With the holidays right around the corner, it's time for me to start planning all the festive meals and treats for the season.

0:06.9

Frozen Washington red raspberries are the ultimate holiday shortcut to flavor, as they are picked at peak ripeness and frozen within hours to lock in their bright, sweet tart taste.

0:17.8

I love raspberries in my desserts, and boy does this cran raspberry pecan

0:23.2

tart sound delicious. Grown by passionate farmers in Washington State, they're frozen with care

0:29.2

to ensure top quality and food safety, and it always feels good to support local American

0:34.6

farmers. And here's the best part. They're always in season. When you buy

0:39.4

American grown frozen raspberries, you're getting fresh off the field flavor all year long.

0:44.7

You can find them at Costco, Kroger, Meyer, and Winkgo Foods. Make sure to look for product in the U.S.

0:51.7

on the bag. Check out True Fruit, Mars, Hyper-chilled chocolate-covered raspberries, and Smucker's

0:57.8

raspberry jam.

0:58.9

Want to learn more details on where to find American frozen red raspberries plus

1:03.6

recipe ideas and cooking tips?

1:05.9

Head to redraz.org.

1:07.9

That's r-a-d-R-A-Z-Z.org. You'll find participating retailers is an inspiration for every meal,

1:16.0

plus info on how these berries go from farm to freezer with quality you can taste.

1:21.3

Welcome to our mini-series, the eight days of dating optimism, your pre-New Year reboot

1:27.2

that helps you rebuild hope and confidence

1:29.6

for finding love in the new year. Enjoy. Dating can start to feel like a constant negotiation

1:35.8

with yourself, balancing hope, doubt, excitement, and frustration all at once. It can be so hard

1:42.9

to stay optimistic when dating, especially after a slew of

1:46.9

not-so-great dates, situationships that never became actual relationships, or other heartbreak. But your

1:53.7

attitude when dating determines your outcome. In day five of our eight days of dating optimism,

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