Hello everybody, welcome back to the show. My guest today is Hamza, he's a

Youtuber, personal development coach, and a community leader. What does it mean to be a man today

is a question many young guys try to answer with varied success.

Hamza has a huge community of young guys looking for advice

so I figured it would be useful to find out what they are struggling with

and try to offer some solutions.

Expect to learn how monk mode can go terribly wrong.

The dangers of audience capture, why young men are struggling to find direction in life,

the role of vulnerability and authenticity in relationships, my advice

to Hamza on how to actually improve himself, how to integrate your emotions, what Hamza learned

from his breakup, and much more. This turned into a kind of impromptu therapy slash coaching session

for a bit, bit of a departure from I guess what is typical but I think Hamzer has the opportunity

to be a really great role model for young guys but I do think that he's a little bit lost and I do care

about him I want him to be happy and I want him to move forward in the right way so I

kind of stepped in and tried to pattern interrupt a bunch of things I've seen

him doing over the last couple of years and maybe this is informative for you and your direction or the guys in your life or even the girls in your life as well. I think a lot of the compulsions and

incentives that are driving Hamzer and his uncertainty and his fear about the

world are very common. I know that they certainly were for me when I was younger and I do think that the the best gym wear on the

for me when I was younger and I do think that there's a lot to take away from

this one so hold on tight.

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