Yo, today's QOD is frustration happens when you think that everybody else got something that you didn't get.

Here we go.

Welcome back to the quote of the day show. I'm your host, Sean Crox and the shot Crox and calm.

Shout out to all the veterans out there on this veterans day.

I hope everybody has the best day ever. And I think this is probably one of my favorite episodes ever.

When I heard this when I was like everybody on earth needs to hear this one. I immediately put it on my Instagram account got so many shares over there.

And I hope that once you hear this, you share it with somebody who you know and who you love. Why?

Well, you're going to find out in a second. Here's TD Jakes.

You know, these are interesting times that we're living in.

And in our cell phone, we can access more people than any other generation in history.

One click of the button and you're out there in cyber lab floating around with people from all over the world having conversations whenever you will.

You would think with that much accessibility, we would never be lonely.

But the truth is it makes us more lonely because everything's designed to fix yourself up. You can only show the good parts of yourself.

You can you you pick the best picture before you post it. That fat picture that you deleted.

Yeah, I know. Yeah, I'm with you, bro. We you may we've real people for Jesus. I'm with you, man. Yes, sir. God loves fat people too.

Now the thing the thing is it creates a moment where we have to be filtered to be accepted.

And in order to feel. You see so so the person that I'm showing you psychology teaches that I have my ideal self and my real self.

My ideal self is built around the person that I would like to be my real self is the person that I am and the gulf between those two the wider they are the more we are to be frustrated.

So we are able to show people our ideal self but what we crave. What we crave is somebody who loves our real self.

Somebody somebody who loves you with no makeup. Somebody who loves you before you put your teeth in.

That's real love.

We got a mountain out. They don't come out.

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