Sarah, what are things that people need to stop doing at weddings?

Spending money.

Spending money.

Oh, okay.

Yeah, yeah, weddings are crazy.

You're already married?

I beg you not to go into debt over this wedding.

Like, set the budget, stick to it.

Cut out the things that don't matter to you.

People don't notice like a lot of things at weddings.

So stop spending money on it.

Okay, there's only three things people notice.

Okay.

One, the food because they're hungry. So the food. Number two, the open bar. They want their alcohol. And number three is the music. If you have a good DJ, a good band that carries through everything. Nobody notices your personalized napkins at the cocktail bar or the party favors or honestly, sometimes even your dress past like one second of it

or your centerpieces or your flowers or any of it. It's so true. Like, so please just set a budget,

don't go into debt. I had a friend that just spent $5,000 on her wedding dress and I wanted to like

yell at her because again, I was like, are you going to wear this once? Can we confirm? are you going to wear this once can we confirm you're going to wear this once okay five thousand dollars like like that to me

was crazy and I know people spend more than that and whatever but I have just seen so much that

my view is like how can we throw a budget wedding oh it's so true I mean I'll say, I'll say this. Like, my husband and I almost just did a dinner. We almost just did a dinner with our closest, like, friends and family. But, you know, something in us, I don't know. I think there hadn't been a wedding in our family for a long time. So we were like, you know, what, let's do something, you know, nice. It was thousands and thousands of dollars. You know, we didn't

go into debt. But I mean, and I think this is actually on the low end. We end up spending about

$55,000, which is like a lot. But we had 130 people, an open bar. You know, we did it in Maine

in August, right, which is the height of wedding season. So in all and all, I feel like it was probably on budget, you know, to some, it was good. We didn't spend a lot of money on flowers at all. I mean, really, 55,000, I mean, 25,000 or 30,000 of that is just food, you know, it's just, and we wanted good food. You know, they did this whole thing where

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