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Hello everyone, I'm Kevin Miller and this is the Ziegler show where our goal is to inspire your true performance.

In this episode, controlling when you are out of control. in this

question, check this out. I asked Ziegler listeners this question.

Throughout a given day,

do you generally behave as you intend to?

And if and when you don't, what tends to derail you?

Well, as responses started pouring in,

a very common thread was just people.

That's what derailed folks. So I gave a follow-up question and ask

when you get upset with people does your emotion come from fear or pride? Fear, as

then you know abandonment, rejection, loss, or pride. Fear as in, you know, abandonment, rejection, loss, or pride, justice, fairness, enabling.

Well, I asked Stephen and Mara Klemic to join me. They were my recent guest in show 753 where we discussed how our

behavior is explained by four principles which is the message in their book

above the line. Well as we went through many the responses, what we came out with was this.

What derails people most from the behavior they would wish to exemplify is lack of control.

Whether it is people or circumstances, lack of control seemed to be, well, no, it was, the main culprit. And so why is this? Well, listen in as Stephen and Mara definitely guide us in understanding what the root issue of that is.

And friends, if you've not yet taken their heart styles indicator assessment,

it's normally only available if you buy the book, but for Ziggler listeners, I asked them to make it available at no cost.

So they're doing that until March 15, 2020.

You can go to heart styles.com slash zigler and follow the instructions.

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