#733 - Why Rich Guys Still Fail With Women (The Real Formula) - Tai Lopez, Mystery & Beckster

The Tai Lopez Show

Tai Lopez

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4.8 • 6.9K Ratings

🗓️ 22 August 2025

⏱️ 86 minutes

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Why do so many rich guys still fail with women?

In this podcast, I sat down with Mystery and Beckster in Iceland to break down the real psychology of attraction. Money, cars, and houses won’t make her want you.
The formula is simple: Attraction + Comfort = Seduction.
We cover:

Why social skills beat money every time
The 5 demonstrations of higher value women look for
How pre-selection and social proof trigger attraction
Why jealousy makes her realize she likes you
The “12 sets per night” rule that changes your dating & business life

This isn’t about fake pickup lines — it’s about becoming a social creature. Life rewards those who take the risk to get out, meet people, and build real connections.

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0:00.0	A woman doesn't know she's attracted to you until she's surprised by the sense of jealousy a rival gives her. A lot of rich guys have come to me. And if they were honest, one of the main motivators where they weren't good in school and women didn't like them, they're like, I'm going to get rich and then women are going to like me. But then they forget to actually get good socially. But I have money. But I have a car, but I have a house. Yeah, other people have money, cars, and houses too. Right. You know, that's not the defining factor to whether she's going to feel good around you or you. Yeah. Life rewards people who take risks and one of the greatest asymmetrical risk you can take is becoming social because you never know
0:38.5	who you're going to meet. A woman will feel much more comfortable with you if she knows that other
0:42.3	women are comfortable with you. Yeah, that's pre-selection. You're in my garage. Hello everybody. Welcome
0:51.4	to the Tai Lopez show. We are here in Iceland, and I'm with the ever so famous mystery.
1:00.6	That's right. Bexter. And we're talking about a lot of stuff that's going to fascinate you. One of the most three most interesting cities, if you're a guy or a woman to meet new people
1:13.3	meet beautiful people we're going to be talking about not a pickup line not the best pickup line
1:18.7	but what they call the approach routine the routine the gamb, what their favorite ones are.
1:28.0	We're going to talk about a few stories of Hollywood, maybe the one in Chicago,
1:33.0	okay, with getting attacked, needing a bouncer to hope you escape from women trying to make out with you.
1:42.0	But more importantly, we're going to talk about the need to become a social creature.
1:48.3	Life rewards people who take risks and one of the greatest asymmetrical risk you can take
1:54.7	is becoming social because you never know who you're going to meet. It might be your next girlfriend,
1:59.0	your next wife, your next business partner, your next mentor.
2:02.8	So welcome to the show.
2:04.2	Thanks for having us.
2:05.4	So it's Mystery and Bexter.
2:08.1	Most of you will know mystery.
2:09.9	You've probably seen him on Conan O'Brien show or, of course, his famous TV show, pickup artist that's right Hollywood I remember
2:21.2	those Hollywood episodes and because I lived in Hollywood too and then Bexter is from
2:27.4	the other side of the pond good old UK they united years ago and begin to
2:32.2	teach men confidence social dynamics dating, dating, love, all these things.
2:37.6	So thanks for coming on the show.
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