Welcome to Feedback Friday. I'm your host, Jordan Harbinger. As always, I'm here with

my Feedback Friday producer, my partner in prescription, Gabriel Masrahi.

On the Jordan Harbinger show, we decode the stories, secrets, and skills of the world's

most fascinating people and turn their wisdom into practical advice that you can use to

impact your own life and those around you. We want to help you see the Matrix when it

comes to how these amazing people think and behave. In our mission is to help you become

a better informed, more critical thinker so you can get a much deeper understanding of

how the world works and make sense of what's really happening even inside your own mind.

If you're new to the show on Fridays, we give advice to you and answer listener questions.

The rest of the week, we have long form interviews and conversations with a variety of incredible

people from spies to CEOs, athletes to authors, thinkers to performers. This week, we had

Nuri Terkel and a deep dive on honesty. Nuri Terkel, really interesting episode on the

Weger genocide in China and our deep dive on honesty. Do you owe people honesty? Do you

owe your friends honesty? How much honesty? Why do we do it? How do we do it in a way that

is congruent with who we are and doesn't get us in trouble? So check out Nuri Terkel

and our deep dive on honesty if you haven't done so yet this week.

Gabe, what is the first thing we have out of the mail bag?

Hi Jordan and Gabe. I'm a 49 year old man who has been happily married to my 40 year

old wife for 11 years. We have two wonderful kids, a deep emotional and intellectual connection

and an amazing sex life. Our relationship is built on love and trust and we both try to

give each other some healthy space. The thing is, two years ago, I got an accidental

voicemail from my wife. It was a conversation between her and a man I didn't know, but it

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