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732: Low-Key Beguiler is a Cheating Butt-Dialer | Feedback Friday

The Jordan Harbinger Show

Jordan Harbinger

Education, Science, Business

4.812.3K Ratings

🗓️ 29 September 2022

⏱️ 58 minutes

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Summary

Your wife of 11 years has butt-dialed you twice in conversation with another man, and she lied about her whereabouts when you tracked her phone. Are you right to be worried? Welcome to Feedback Friday!

And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!

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On This Week's Feedback Friday, We Discuss:
  • Your wife of 11 years has butt-dialed you twice in conversation with another man, and she lied about her whereabouts when you tracked her phone. Are you right to be worried?
  • As a flight attendant, you decided to get medical attention for an overdosing drug mule instead of allowing him to complete the run and save his abducted mother. You never discovered the outcome, and years later, you still wonder if you made the right choice.
  • You're a business owner who's great at showing appreciation to your staff, paying generously, and letting employees know when they've done well. But you're not so good at giving negative feedback or coaching them toward improvement. How do you strike the right balance between nice guy and fair boss?
  • Is the ex who rejected your advances for years and agreed to be "just friends" — while still living with you and sharing the same bed — suddenly interested in getting back together just because you got a new job and make twice as much money as you did before?
  • As the teacher for one of the best educational theater programs in your state, is it wrong to be somewhat obsessed with winning its annual competition — or is encouraging your students to excel just part of the job?
  • Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!
  • Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.
  • Connect with Gabriel on Twitter at @GabeMizrahi.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Welcome to Feedback Friday. I'm your host, Jordan Harbinger. As always, I'm here with

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my Feedback Friday producer, my partner in prescription, Gabriel Masrahi.

0:12.5

On the Jordan Harbinger show, we decode the stories, secrets, and skills of the world's

0:16.0

most fascinating people and turn their wisdom into practical advice that you can use to

0:20.3

impact your own life and those around you. We want to help you see the Matrix when it

0:24.4

comes to how these amazing people think and behave. In our mission is to help you become

0:28.2

a better informed, more critical thinker so you can get a much deeper understanding of

0:32.3

how the world works and make sense of what's really happening even inside your own mind.

0:36.9

If you're new to the show on Fridays, we give advice to you and answer listener questions.

0:41.0

The rest of the week, we have long form interviews and conversations with a variety of incredible

0:45.0

people from spies to CEOs, athletes to authors, thinkers to performers. This week, we had

0:50.4

Nuri Terkel and a deep dive on honesty. Nuri Terkel, really interesting episode on the

0:55.5

Weger genocide in China and our deep dive on honesty. Do you owe people honesty? Do you

1:00.3

owe your friends honesty? How much honesty? Why do we do it? How do we do it in a way that

1:05.3

is congruent with who we are and doesn't get us in trouble? So check out Nuri Terkel

1:09.5

and our deep dive on honesty if you haven't done so yet this week.

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Gabe, what is the first thing we have out of the mail bag?

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Hi Jordan and Gabe. I'm a 49 year old man who has been happily married to my 40 year

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old wife for 11 years. We have two wonderful kids, a deep emotional and intellectual connection

1:26.8

and an amazing sex life. Our relationship is built on love and trust and we both try to

1:32.2

give each other some healthy space. The thing is, two years ago, I got an accidental

1:37.5

voicemail from my wife. It was a conversation between her and a man I didn't know, but it

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