73. Going All-In On True Love with Annie Lalla

Why Isn't Everyone Doing This? with Emily Fletcher

Emily Fletcher

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4.9 • 529 Ratings

🗓️ 11 February 2025

⏱️ 98 minutes

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What if the biggest thing keeping you from true love is… you? In this mind-expanding episode of Why Isn’t Everyone Doing This?, Emily sits down with the brilliant Annie Lala—love coach, philosopher, and conflict resolution expert—to explore why so many of us struggle to fully believe in, receive, and sustain true love. And spoiler: it’s not just about finding “the one.” Annie shares her deeply personal journey of overcoming skepticism (even as a love coach!) and the radical shifts that transformed her own marriage. We break down the subconscious blocks, relational patterns, and practical tools you can use to attract, deepen, and keep love—whether you're single or already in a relationship. 💡 In this episode, we cover: ✨ The hidden wounds that shape your romantic choices (and how to heal them) ✨ Why faith—not evidence—is the key to manifesting lasting love ✨ The surprising power of conflict in deepening intimacy ✨ How to stop repeating old patterns and finally attract the love you desire ✨ My own personal coaching session with Annie—raw, real, and eye-opening This episode is packed with powerful insights and practical tools that will change the way you approach love, relationships, and even yourself. 🔥 Press play and unlock the love you’re meant for. Love the episode? Be sure to follow and rate the podcast so more people can unlock the keys and codes to free their souls. ✨ 🔗 More from Emily & Ziva: ► LIVE: The Ziva Magic Retreat [Colorado Springs, May 29 - June 1 2025]: https://zivameditation.com/magicretreat ► Join Emily Fletcher's transformative new Embodied Manifesting course - get 15% off with promo code WHYTHIS: https://makemagic.zivameditation.com ► Commit to a daily meditation practice you love with Ziva Meditation - get 15% off with promo code WHYTHIS: https://zivameditation.com/jointoday ► Take Ziva's FREE Meditation Masterclass: https://zivameditation.com/learn ► And follow us on Instagram ► If you prefer to watch this episode on YouTube, click here: YouTube Channel About the guest: Annie Lalla is a relationship coach dedicated to helping individuals and couples create deep, lasting connections by maximizing freedom and minimizing shame. Her expertise spans evolutionary psychology, integral theory, intergenerational family systems, and therapeutic sexuality. Certified in Coaching, NLP, and Clinical Hypnosis, she uses tools like metaphoric narrative, role-play, and sacred theater to help clients break toxic patterns, resolve conflict, and cultivate resilient, love-filled relationships. Whether guiding singles ready to find their partner or couples seeking deeper intimacy, Annie empowers people to build extraordinary love that lasts a lifetime. 🔗 More from Annie Lalla: ► Website: https://www.annielalla.com/ ► Take Annie's Love Test: www.annielalla.com/emilyfletcher ► Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/2LYrYai0uN1V6oIgqI32UC ► Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lallabird/

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0:00.0	Oh, sweet friends, buckle up because today's episode of Why Isn't Everyone Doing This has more wisdom per minute than any other episode we have ever shot.
0:09.0	Today, I am bringing you my personal love coach, the amazing Annie Lala.
0:13.6	Now, Annie Lala coaches privately. She also runs a coaching institute where she trains love coaches,
0:18.9	and she runs a coaching institute with her husband.
0:21.1	She is a philosopher, a speaker, a thought leader, and known as the cartographer of love.
0:25.8	She specializes in love, sex, and conflict resolution. And I have seen her do this time and time again,
0:31.8	where she really helps you to turn conflict into greater intimacy. She has spent her life mapping the subtle complexities
0:38.6	of communication and relationships. And she has an honors degree in biology and philosophy and a
0:43.8	minor in Buddhism. And you can hear this in the way that she takes these systems and applies
0:48.4	them to relationships. Today we're going to talk about why isn't everyone believing in true love?
0:54.0	And you don't have to be in a
0:55.4	relationship to get something out of this. This episode applies to absolutely everyone. Someone who's
1:01.0	looking to call in true love, someone who's in a relationship that would like it to be a little
1:05.5	closer to true love. And we both really believe that this is the most powerful drug there is on the planet,
1:12.3	and that relationships and true love really can be your syllabus, your blueprint for a way
1:18.3	to reach full actualization in this lifetime.
1:20.8	This episode, I cried.
1:22.4	She coached me personally, so you get to have a little window into where I am with relationships
1:26.6	and true love, but I'm so excited for you get to marinate little window into where I am with relationships and true love.
1:32.1	But I'm so excited for you get to marinate in the mastery that is Annie Lala.
1:34.8	All right, please welcome Annie Lala to the show.
2:02.2	Okay, Annie Lala, welcome to why isn't everyone Doing This? I have been looking forward to this episode and marinating and your mastery for a very long time. Okay, so we had the fortunate being at a party this weekend. It's so fun. And you told a story last night that I was like, wait, start with this, start with this story, because it's mind-blowing.
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