If you're building an empire, don't date or marry somebody who's addicted to chaos. Their instability

will bankrupt your focus. So this applies whether you're single, whether you're dating, whether

you're married. I'm here on the farm. We're making hay. I'm walking down. We're going to plant some

corn. And by the way, this also applies non-romantically. Business partners, friends. There are

humans. They actually call it chaotic

personality disorder sometimes it's called borderline personality disorder bpd sometimes it's called

neurotic it depends on whether you're using old school psychology young or you're using the modern

hexico score which would call it conscientious traits emotionally stable traits so it's extremely important when you're using the modern hexaco score, which would call it conscientious traits, emotionally stable traits.

So it's extremely important when you're trying to build something big, when you're trying to transform your life, that there's nobody addicted to chaos.

I always say there's a friend or a lover or a spouse where whenever there's two doors and one door leads to the beautiful life and the other door leads to the chaotic they always choose the chaotic that person can't be in your life and that's rough you know it's pretty this time of the year that's rough sometimes you got to make some tough decisions an amish guy i have another farm in an am community. And I go to church sometimes with them to listen.

It's very peaceful. It's in German, but I understand kind of the Amish language. And last time I was

there, an Amish preacher, old, wise preacher lived a lot of lives, has a big gray beard, as 10 kids.

He said, sometimes you have to have the courage to have a hard talk with somebody.

That hard talk could be with a family member. It could be with a wife, a husband, boyfriend,

girlfriend, business partner. And I really took away. I actually had a hard talk with somebody.

There was someone in my life that had unfair WTRs. What is a WTR? Welfare trade-off ratio.

I learned this from Dr. David Bus. So in life,

something an unstable person will do besides being chaotic. Of course, we know that person chaos.

Things are always going wrong around them. There's always disasters. They're always in fight or flight mode um in addition to that those

people generally tend to have other correlated personality traits one of those would be um exploitative

behavior okay if you look at the npd or if you look at the dark triad quizzes those are quizzes

of people who have exploitative traits.

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