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The Sabrina Zohar Show

72: Chasing Unavailable Love and Unpacking Idealized Relationships with Matthew Hussey

The Sabrina Zohar Show

The Sabrina Zohar Show

Mental Health, Education, Relationships, Self-improvement, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.94.8K Ratings

🗓️ 26 April 2024

⏱️ 68 minutes

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Summary

This week, Sabrina sits down with Matthew Hussey and the two delve deep into the complex world of love and relationships, share invaluable insights on the pitfalls of cherishing potential over reality in romantic pursuits.

Sabrina opens up about the personal journey that led her to understand the futility of chasing after the unavailable, and discover how tough conversations became the pivotal tool for recognizing genuine reciprocity in her relationships.

Our conversation navigates through the intriguing concept of "living in the blue" within text message exchanges, signifying the balance of effort in communication. Matthew bravely parallels chronic physical pain with the emotional toll of being single, leading to a candid discussion about the pursuit of happiness, whether alone or with a partner.

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Okay,

0:03.0

welcome to another week. We have such a special guest.

0:06.0

Please, please welcome Matthew Hussey on the podcast.

0:09.0

Matthew, welcome to the community and I am so so honored to have you on today's episode.

0:13.4

Yeah I'm honored to be here. Thank you for having me.

0:16.0

Of course and you have a new book out don't you?

0:19.3

I do indeed. It is called Love Life, How to raise your standards, find your person, and live happily

0:26.4

no matter what.

0:27.5

And I am so proud of it, I'm so excited.

0:30.8

That is amazing, and I know that you just got married, like we're going to talk about all of this but I just I'd love if you could introduce yourself a little bit to anybody who doesn't know you I know so many people do but I'd love just in your own words like well who was Matthew Hussey? So I have been working with people in their love

0:47.7

lives to help them find love, heal from lost love and manage the experience and the emotions they feel when they're

0:58.8

looking for love for the last 17 years of my life.

1:04.0

I began on YouTube at 19 years old, which is insane.

1:09.0

But I started making videos to help people create more opportunities in their love lives and increasingly over time as my knowledge has deepened I've helped people understand how to cope and deal with the current

1:26.3

culture out there when they're looking for love, and also how to identify what may be some internal obstacles that may be preventing them from

1:37.9

finding the kind of healthy love that they're looking for. I wrote a book in

1:41.8

2013 called Get the Guy, which I now in a different time

1:47.6

which was called something different. But such as, you know know is my evolution my at the time I that was the best name I could come up with and

2:00.2

10 years later and half a billion views later on our YouTube channel.

2:05.6

I've now written a book called Love Life, which is a much deeper book and

2:12.1

designed to be a co-pilot for anyone who maybe doesn't love the dating

2:18.0

culture out there and maybe even doesn't love the idea of having to date, but deeply wants to find love,

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