Annie Undone calls in to talk all about polyamory and relationship anarchy and discusses why she no longer considers herself polyamorous and instead is a relationship anarchist, what a relationship anarchist is, how and why her and her husband divorced and how she still kept her other relationships going, how and why she eventually broke up with her girlfriend and decided to be “monogamous” with her boyfriend, their romantic and sexual exclusivity and what that entails, her queer platonic partnership she now has with her girlfriend and what that looks like, the boundaries she has with all her partners and how they all have reacted to them, their no abandonment rule and what that means, her jealousy, where an when its come up and how and why she accepts it, how and why she is in the process of de-escalating her owner/property relationship, what polyamory has brought up for her and what she’s learned from it, how she’s done every single type of relationship style and why she believes knowing that there are many options is super important plus a whole lot more. Stay tuned for short update on all her relationships at the end of the episode. You can find her Patreon and Instagram here: https://linktr.ee/AnnieUndone  **To see pics of ANNIE UNDONE plus see anonymous pics of my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To Join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://bluechew.com Get your first month FREE! https://butterwellness.com/ Try the Butter Wellness perineum massager and use code STRICTLY for 20% off your entire order Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices