Hello everyone, it's Adam. Before launching into this episode, I want to invite you to two upcoming conferences.

The first is the Sexual Attachment Conference, which will be held via Zoom on May 5th to 6th, 2023.

The purpose of this conference is to help you understand how your present sexual struggles

are directly related to your past family of origin story.

And the second conference will be held a week later on Saturday, May 13th,

and it is designed to teach you the art and science of engaging another person's story.

You can sign up for either of these virtual conferences at AdamYoungCounselling.com.

Thank you and now let's dive into today's podcast episode.

Welcome back to the place we find ourselves podcast. I'm Adam Young and today I'm going to attempt

to answer a question that I get asked a lot. And the question is simply, what if I don't remember

very much about my childhood? What if you are a person who wants to engage your story?

But when you think back on your growing up years, you just don't remember very much.

First of all, let me say this, it can be incredibly frustrating if you are someone who wants to do

this work, who believes in the importance of engaging your story, and yet who can't seem to remember

very much about your own story. This can be so frustrating. Second, please know that there is

nothing wrong with you if you don't remember very much. Nothing. If you don't remember much,

there is a reason for that. And by the way, I have put together a free document that summarizes

today's episode and also provides some exercises to help you remember your stories. And if you want,

you can get it by going to AdamYoungCounseling.com and clicking on resources.

More often than not, people who can't remember much of their childhood are avoidantly attached.

It's not always true, but if you have trouble remembering stories from your growing up years,

it is likely that you are avoidantly attached. What does that mean? What is avoidant attachment?

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