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Southern Fried True Crime

71: The Tangled Web of Dr. Michelle Theer

Southern Fried True Crime

Erica Kelley

True Crime, Society & Culture, History

4.610.5K Ratings

🗓️ 5 October 2019

⏱️ 65 minutes

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Summary

The public is fascinated by love triangles. Add in betrayal and murder and you’ve got the plot to a novel, a movie or a soap opera. People cannot get enough of the romantic notion of a beautiful woman, torn between her love of two men. In 1999, Dr. Michelle Theer had been leading a secret life on the internet. She was married to Air Force Captain Marty Theer, who had no idea his wife was posting a dating profile online and meeting many men for anonymous sex. By the year 2000, Michelle was in a serious relationship with one of these men. And she set in motion a plan not to just get rid of her husband, but also her lover so she could begin a new life, far away from Fayetteville, North Carolina.

Suggested Reading: The Officer’s Wife by Michael Freeman

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Researched by Erica Kelley
Edited by Chaes Gray
Original Graphic Art by Coley Horner
Original Music by Rob Harrison-Gamma Radio

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0:00.0

Southern Fried true crime covers cases that are not suitable for young listeners, and there may also be some explicit language used.

0:07.0

Listener discretion is advised.

0:12.0

When we hear the phrase love triangle, it conjures up all kinds of romantic imagery.

0:18.0

It's as old as Greek mythology, gaining momentum during the exaggerated lyricism of Shakespeare.

0:24.0

Opros, novels, movies, soap operas, they all give us the idea that a love triangle is the epitome of romance.

0:32.0

Where a beautiful woman is so desired, she can hardly choose between her two lovers.

0:38.0

Even in more current pop culture, the trope of the love triangle was explored ad nauseam in the popular Twilight series of books and movies.

0:47.0

It usually involves a good, safe man, and of course, the bad boy.

0:53.0

But is it a love triangle if one of the suitors is unaware he has competition?

0:58.0

Life is often stranger than fiction, but usually, it's depressingly mundane.

1:04.0

Michelle Thier found herself in what is often described as a love triangle.

1:08.0

But in reality, she was simply a cheater.

1:11.0

Her husband, just the cuckold, a trope just is old, but much more sad than the romantic notion of a love triangle.

1:20.0

And did Michelle really love her other suitor or was he just a means to an end for her?

1:25.0

A life where she chooses neither me, but instead rises from the ashes like a phoenix, starting her life over,

1:32.0

without the constraints of metal bonds or the obsessive love of her other suitor, a man who had served his purpose.

1:40.0

But Michelle Thier was no phoenix, she was a black widow.

1:45.0

ensnaring more than just two men in her web of lies before her ultimate downfall.

1:54.0

Welcome to episode 71, the tangled web of Dr. Michelle Thier.

2:03.0

Fayetteville, North Carolina is home of the 82nd Airborne and the US Army Special Operations Command.

2:10.0

Fayetteville is also home to several museums of military art and history, and is famous for being the first American city, named for the Marquis de Lafayette,

2:19.0

the French aristocrat and military officer who fought in the Revolutionary War.

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