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Coaching for Leaders

706: How to Talk to People Who Intimidate You, with Shandy Welch

Coaching for Leaders

Dave Stachowiak

Education, Business, Management, Self-improvement, Careers

4.81.6K Ratings

🗓️ 2 November 2024

⏱️ 39 minutes

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Summary

Shandy Welch: Leadership Coach
Shandy Welch is an executive leadership coach. Her coaching focus is around humanizing leadership and re-engaging individuals and teams to inspire change and innovation. She is also a Coaching for Leaders Fellow.

Most leaders find themselves — at least occasionally — in conversations with people who intimidate them. In this SaturdayCast, Shandy and I share what’s worked for us and how it might help you have better conversations.
Key Points

Nervousness is your friend. If you feel it, that means you care. Try to get the butterflies flying in formation.
You are there because you are the best person to be there. Full stop.
People with visibility will expect you've done your homework. If they’ve put something out into the world, they want you to find it.
Preparation helps you improvise. “You've got to learn your instrument. Then, you practice, practice, practice. And then, when you finally get up there on the bandstand, forget all that and just wail.” -Charlie Parker
Always assume there is something you can do to help out someone else. Consider their perspective and what they gain from the meeting with you.
Everybody has doubts and struggles. Remember the humanity that’s present in every interaction.

What was helpful to you from our conversation? We’d love to know. Share it with Shandy at [email protected]
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How to Help People Speak Truth to Power, with Megan Reitz (episode 597)
Set the Tone for Speaking Up, with Mike Massimino (episode 672)

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Most leaders find themselves at least occasionally in conversations with people who intimidate them.

0:07.1

In this Saturday cast, Shandy Welch, one of our fellows and I, share what's worked for us and how it might help you have better conversations.

0:16.7

This is Coaching for Leaders, Episode 7006.

0:20.9

Produced by Innovate Learning, maximizing human potential.

0:29.4

Greetings to you from Orange County, California.

0:32.7

This is Coaching for Leaders, and I'm your host, Dave Stahofiak.

0:37.5

Leaders are born, they're madeofiak. Leaders are born.

0:39.2

They're made.

0:40.3

And this weekly show helps you discover leadership wisdom through insightful conversations.

0:46.1

This is one of our Saturday casts.

0:48.8

A few times a year, I air an episode here on a Saturday that's a chat with one of our members.

0:53.9

We still have a regular

0:55.0

episode coming on Monday, so this is a extra episode. And the Saturday casts are sponsored and

1:00.7

brought to you by the Coaching for Leaders Academy. You can discover more about the Academy and

1:06.2

receive an invitation for when we next open applications by just going over to Coaching for Leaders.com

1:13.8

slash academy.

1:15.9

Today, a conversation with one of our longtime members that, boy, is something I've experienced

1:22.5

a whole bunch in my career.

1:24.4

I bet you have too, which is thinking about and trying to get better at talking

1:29.3

to people who intimidate you. It is a reality that all of us deal with in our lives and in our

1:36.7

careers and certainly in leadership, in fact, most prominently in our leadership roles.

1:42.7

How do we get better at it? Today, a conversation

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