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The Jordan Harbinger Show

703: Benjamin Hardy | How to Be Your Future Self Now

The Jordan Harbinger Show

Jordan Harbinger

Education, Science, Business

4.812.3K Ratings

🗓️ 25 July 2022

⏱️ 71 minutes

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Summary

Benjamin Hardy (@BenjaminPHardy) is an organizational psychologist and author of books about willpowerself-limiting beliefs, teamwork, and the pursuit of happiness. He returns to the show to discuss his latest offering: Be Your Future Self Now: The Science of Intentional Transformation.

What We Discuss with Benjamin Hardy:
  • Prospection: rather than remaining tethered to a past over which we no longer have any control, we can visualize a number of possible futures and choose the course of action that guides us toward the one we find most desirable.
  • Most of us don't guide ourselves toward our most desirable future because we're too busy coping with the immediate concerns of daily life to clearly see the course that would take us there.
  • Are you committing yourself to avoidance-driven goals (like doomscrolling through the news) that serve to distract and knock you off course instead of approach-driven goals that nudge you toward your ideal future self (like learning more about your chosen career so you can do your best work and get promoted)?
  • Connecting with your long-term future self to make the decisions that speed you toward this person may require extra effort because humans are living longer than ever before and probably didn't evolve to think far beyond immediate survival.
  • Why it's important to envision your future self as an actual different person -- with different thoughts and motivations -- than you are today rather than just a later iteration of your current self.
  • And much more...

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I think most of us were often dishonest about what we really want.

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We lie and we then just say, well no, I want this and this and this.

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Those are all shadows of what we really want.

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We're not being honest with ourselves and we're not being honest with anyone else.

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Today my friend Benjamin Hardy is back on the show.

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