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🗓️ 11 February 2023
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| 0:00.0 | Hey, everyone. This is our today's episode is about long-distance relationships. |
| 0:04.8 | A lot of you have been emailing me questions about long-distance relationships for a long time. |
| 0:09.8 | And so I am finally getting to it. |
| 0:12.4 | This is actually part three of my Loneliness Deep Dive series, |
| 0:17.8 | but part one was on avoidant personality disorder, part two was on dissociation. |
| 0:23.2 | I think those are only for patrons of the podcast. This is this episode is for everyone. |
| 0:28.0 | And let's introduce the podcast. This is called the Psychology in Seattle podcast. |
| 0:33.0 | And I am called Dr. Kirk Honda. I'm a therapist and a professor. |
| 0:37.5 | So when I Google long-distance relationships, I find that there's a lot of simplistic |
| 0:44.4 | or even just bad advice on the internet, you know, just bland things like, hey, if you're |
| 0:50.0 | in a long-distance relationship, you know, five tips of being in a long-distance relationship. |
| 0:54.6 | Number one, don't judge each other. Well, that's pretty obvious, right? I mean, what |
| 0:59.5 | is specific to a long-distance relationship about not judging each other? You shouldn't judge |
| 1:04.7 | each other in a in a non-long-distance relationship as well. By the way, let's do some definitions here. |
| 1:11.8 | So long-distance relationship is considered by research to be at least 132 miles away, |
| 1:19.7 | all the stats that I have, by the way, are in the US. So it's about two plus hours of driving, |
| 1:25.2 | two and a half hours of driving. So if you live two to three hours away in all likelihood, |
| 1:31.1 | you consider yourself to be in a long-distance relationship. Now, in my neck of the woods in |
| 1:37.7 | Seattle, people commute quite long distances. So I wouldn't be surprised if a lot of people in |
| 1:44.3 | two hour driving distance away from each other. I wouldn't be surprised if they didn't consider |
| 1:51.3 | themselves to be in a long-distance relationship. For those in my area that'd be like between |
| 1:56.1 | Seattle and Bellingham, and so I could see it going either way. But anyway, so research shows that |
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