7 Reasons You Need To Stop Caring What Others Think
The GaryVee Audio Experience
Gary Vaynerchuk
4.8 • 18.3K Ratings
🗓️ 15 October 2018
⏱️ 22 minutes
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Summary
To have a winner’s mentality, you have to stop caring what other people think. You’ve gotta get quiet in your own head.
So many people make big life decisions based on other people’s opinions. You care so much about what your mom, dad, brother, or friends think that you’re allowing them to dictate your actions in life.
At the core of it, the barriers so many people have aren’t really about “money” or “time.” They’re about opinions.
It’s the biggest reason so many people are unhappy right now. Because they value someone else’s opinion more than their own.
Once you get past that, life can get real good.
Here’s how you can get quiet in your own head:
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| 0:00.0 | This is the Gary V. Audio Experience. |
| 0:07.0 | In this clip from last year, Gary talks about how employees manifest stress because |
| 0:21.1 | they don't want to disappoint their superiors. |
| 0:23.8 | And how a lot of the times, this is stress that doesn't need to be focused on. |
| 0:27.4 | My biggest issue at VaynerMedia is that there's a lot of leaders below that, below that, |
| 0:32.5 | below that that are manifesting stress. |
| 0:35.3 | They're making up stress. |
| 0:37.0 | They're scared about shit when it's something I don't care about. |
| 0:41.2 | Like literally people direct reports come to me and be like, oh, this is fucked up and |
| 0:44.1 | I'm scared. |
| 0:45.1 | I don't want to let you down. |
| 0:46.1 | I'm like, I already told you that I don't give a fuck about that. |
| 0:48.4 | A fascinating thing for people that are within companies or doing their own thing |
| 0:52.7 | as entrepreneurs is, we're manifesting stress. |
| 0:56.1 | We're worrying about dumb shit. |
| 0:58.2 | You're making up negatives when they don't actually exist and that is the quickest way |
| 1:03.1 | to lose. |
| 1:04.1 | I'm massively frustrated in my organization that are certain leaders that are stressing |
| 1:08.0 | each other out based on an imaginary situation. |
| 1:11.4 | Nobody's bonus here for that purpose. |
| 1:13.5 | There's no artificial thing driving your stress. |
| 1:16.4 | Just do the best you can. |
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