Hello everybody, welcome to your private moments. These are the little moments that we go back into our archive.

It's like going into a library, we find our favourite book, we open it up for you and you get to listen to it.

That makes any sense.

Anyway, today's private moment is with help I sex it my boss with William Henson and Jordan North.

The two guys, they sit, they talk about different things, they solve dilemmas, they talk about etiquette.

It's an amazing podcast that they have and they came on private parts and we had the most amazing chat.

We found out, by the way, why holding your pinky up in the air while drinking tea is a bad thing.

I'm not going to tell you what it is, but it's to do with an STD.

Here's the episode with help I sex it my boss.

William, you said an interesting fact about tea cups.

Yes, so we need the answer to this.

One of my, the bains of my life is when people, whether they're in films, TV on stage or in real life,

are sitting there drinking their tea with their little finger extended because they think it's a pot.

We all know it's not, but actually although it does have its origins in the aristocracy of France,

but it was not what people think it is.

In effect, in the court of Louis XIV, where the word etiquette itself was invented or created,

tea was just come in from China. It was very expensive and thus they only the aristocracy were drinking it because they could afford it.

It was drunk at the end of a meal.

As you know from your basic French history, the French at the time were quite promiscuous.

You know, husbands and wives or whatever they would be a lot of bed-sharing.

Swingers.

And it was, that's because of that, there was quite a lot of sexually transmitted disease that was going around, in particular syphilis.

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