Hell, I suck at dating with Dean Ungler and I heart radio podcast.

Hello and welcome to episode seven of Help I Suck at dating.

I'm Dean Ungler and thank you so much for tuning into listen.

So last week we talked a little bit about ghosting for our Halloween episode.

And this week we're going to cover it a little bit more because the listener reaction was pretty inquisitive.

There were some questions that were going to be left unanswered.

So circling back to episode number one we had Rachel De Alto from married at first sight and she's going to jump on the phone and kind of help diagnose what ghosting really stems from and and kind of why it's around.

So Rachel are you there?

I'm here.

Hey Rachel good to hear from you again.

How are you?

I'm doing well. How have things been since the last time we spoke?

All as well. All as well on these posts. How are you doing?

I'm doing well. I'm doing well. Thanks so much for taking the time to call in.

As you're as you know, we're talking a little bit more about ghosting today and I think that you have some good information about it.

So why do you think someone ghosts?

It's just easier. I think people don't like to have confrontation and you know, especially in a situation where you're not in a relationship and you kind of don't owe anyone that kind of super sit down serious conversation.

It's just easier to kind of let it fade away and so it's just it's a non-confrontational way to let things go.

Whether it's the nicest thing, you know, that remains to be seen.

So it's kind of a way to avoid conflicts.

Yes. A hundred percent. I think most people that go for kind of like, well, I don't really like this person enough to continue, but I don't have enough relationship with them to say let's sit down.

I'm going to tell you why. I don't want to date you anymore.

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