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Hello there tonight is Thursday, September 12.

I'm on a little bit of a podcast row.

I'm gonna do one by request tonight and like I usually try to do,

I kept it down to five points. I'm 34 years old I would be 35 May 15th and so I love to take your request because that makes it a little bit easier for me.

So don't hesitate to tweet me and let me know or Instagram me and let me know what you like for

me to cover. But I'm going to let you know and five quick points. Things that I wish I had known in my 20s. The number one thing that I wrote down was that being single is not the

end of the world. For us young African American women I mean you've got Steve

Harvey Hawking books, CNN doing specials. Everybody is talking, I mean you even have these big picture houses making film something new about our being single.

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