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The Confidence Podcast: Mindset Coaching and Tips to Overcome Self-Limiting Beliefs, Self-Doubt, Perfectionism, Overthinking, Impostor Syndrome and Insecurity

#689: Failure Isn't the Problem — Your Definition Is

The Confidence Podcast: Mindset Coaching and Tips to Overcome Self-Limiting Beliefs, Self-Doubt, Perfectionism, Overthinking, Impostor Syndrome and Insecurity

Trish Blackwell | Life Coach, Confidence Coach, Mindset Coach

Education, Self-improvement, Christianity, Religion & Spirituality

4.91.6K Ratings

🗓️ 3 February 2026

⏱️ 23 minutes

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Summary

Failure has been taught all wrong.

 

Most people think failure means something went wrong—that it's proof they weren't good enough, ready enough, or capable enough. And that belief quietly keeps them stuck.

 

In this episode, I'm redefining failure in a way that actually builds confidence instead of destroying it. You'll learn why failure is not the opposite of success, how willingness matters more than outcomes, and how to stay proud of yourself even when results don't match your effort.

 

If you've ever tried, fallen short, and wondered whether it was worth it—this episode will change how you see yourself and your progress.

 

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Let's talk about failure because most of us were taught to fear it or make it mean something that it doesn't.

0:07.6

And we feel ashamed by it. We dismiss it. We get discouraged. We start playing small and drifting rather than doing big things in our life.

0:16.2

Somewhere along the way, failure became evidence that something was wrong with us instead of evidence

0:22.3

that we were willing to try.

0:25.4

And that belief is expensive because it costs people confidence.

0:28.9

It costs momentum.

0:30.4

It costs you breakthrough experience and the life of your dreams.

0:34.3

It keeps people who are incredibly capable playing small. And today I want to

0:42.3

redefine failure with you, not to make it better, not to tell you you're not going to experience

0:46.9

it, but to make it more accurate. Because when you understand what failure actually means,

0:52.1

you stop making it personal and you start building real

0:56.2

confidence. You're listening to the Confidence podcast, your go-to space for high-performance coaching

1:02.2

designed for ambitious high achievers who want more out of life. You deserve confidence that

1:08.6

rises to meet your dreams. This is the podcast that will help you activate it fully.

1:13.6

I'm your host, Trish Blackwell.

1:15.6

Let's dive in.

1:16.7

Hey, guys, I'm Trish Blackwell.

1:18.2

Welcome to the Confidence Podcast.

1:19.7

You are listening to episode 689.

1:23.2

We're talking today about redefining failure.

1:26.3

This is a conversation that I wish I had had when I was

1:30.4

an adolescent and a young athlete. And now even in my, in my 20s and 30s, I was still a lesson that I was

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