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Mormon Stories Podcast

686: Margi Dehlin's Mormon Transition Pt. 3 - Margi's LIfe after Mormonism

Mormon Stories Podcast

Dr. John Dehlin

Religion & Spirituality

4.65.2K Ratings

🗓️ 27 December 2016

⏱️ 92 minutes

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Summary

As the first interview for the new Mormon Transitions project, I am incredibly pleased to interview my dear wife of 23 years, Margaret (Margi) Weber Dehlin. In this three-part interview, I ask Margi a series of 46 questions focusing on thee parts:

  • Part 1: Margi's life as a believing Mormon. This includes questions about how her family joined the LDS church in Washington D.C. during the 1970s, reflections on her own "conversion" to the church, Margi's favorite parts about being a believing, active Mormon, and the most challenging parts as well.
  • Part 2: Margi's faith crisis and transition away from Mormon orthodoxy, including our time trying to remain LDS as semi-believers, and her experiences and reflections on my excommunication. Topics include the impetus for Margi's faith transition, how she/we "came out" to our children parents, extended family, etc. as unorthodox Mormons, and what the most difficult and rewarding parts of the transition were.
  • Part 3: Margi's life and perspective now, as a post-Mormon, including reflections on her current beliefs and non-beliefs, her approach to nurturing a healthy/happy family without religion, how she approaches raising children without the church, and why she feels as though she and our family are happier and healthier than ever before after leaving the church.

The plan for Mormon Transitions podcast is as follows:

  • We plan to conduct somewhere between 20 and 30 of these interviews, and to share them at http://mormontransitions.org. We also plan to "chop" these interviews up by question, so that people can peruse the interview by topic (e.g., raising children after a faith crisis, how to "come out" to family and friends, secular spirituality, dealing with death).
  • We plan to host a weekly call-in show where people can call with their questions/concerns and receive feedback from a mental health professional and/or expert.
  • We plan to compile all the advice and perspective over 2017 into a book entitled something to the effect of, "Navigating a Mormon Transition."
  • We plan to continue hosting Mormon Transition Events across the U.S. See our Mormon Transitions event calendar for events as they are scheduled.

If you support Mormon Stories, Mormon Transitions, Mormon Matters, A Thoughtful Faith, or any of the Open Stories Foundation projects, please consider a donation today. You can donate via any of the "donate" buttons on any of the pages.

Transcript

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0:00.0

Hi everyone this is John Dillin with a few very brief announcements to make.

0:04.0

First, Mormon stories depends on your financial support to continue.

0:10.0

The Open Stories Foundation has a lot of expenses including technology,

0:15.0

software, hardware, accounting, finance, legal, etc.

0:21.0

and we really need your financial support.

0:23.0

So if you are listening to Mormon stories and do not donate,

0:27.0

we have made it really easy for you to go up to Mormon Stories.org and make a recurring donation or a one-time donation.

0:33.0

If literally just a hundred of you make a recurring donation,

0:37.0

it can transform what we do at the Open Stories Foundation.

0:40.0

So please, please today, if you want to see this podcast continue,

0:44.0

please go up to Mormon Stories.org and donate.

0:47.0

Secondly, this interview with Margie, look for it to be one of about 20 or 30 interviews that we do

0:53.0

where we ask about 50 or 60 questions about people's Mormon transition experiences

0:59.0

and we plan on both sharing these interviews at MormonTransitions.org

1:03.0

but also chopping them up into little pieces such that you can share people's answer to various questions over YouTube

1:13.0

for those who are struggling or need support.

1:16.0

So that's an exciting thing about Mormon transitions.

1:19.0

We're also going to be doing a weekly call-in show at Mormon Transitions where you can call in some people like me, my wife Margie, Noah Rasheda, Natasha Alphopark or others.

1:30.0

We'll be there to answer your questions about navigating Mormon transition.

1:34.0

Look for that in the coming year at MormonTransitions.org.

1:37.0

We will also be doing a book, Mormon Transitions book that we hope to be releasing by 2018

1:45.0

and the content from 2017 will support the book in 2018.

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