Adam was in an open relationship with a self-described slut and he trained himself to not be jealous. How did he wind up in a hardcore open relationship? How did he try to control the relationship in the beginning? And, exactly how did he get passed his jealousy and insecurities? Tune in to fond out plus hear all about how how there were threesomes and swaps and how and why wasn’t jealous then, how he met Jane and how and why he realized she was the wildest sexually open women he had ever met, how and why he thought when they started dating that she would calm don and how he reacted when she didn’t,, why he was never jealous in the past but was when he was with her, how and why being with a woman who had more sexual experience was difficult for him, how he was very into extreme sports and how when she came into the picture he was leaving that world, how he got her to commit even though she wasn't into it, how she put their ‘open relationship’ out there and how he felt about it as well as how his friends felt about it, how they had a don’t ask don't tell policy and why it didn’t work, the rules he gave her to follow and how and why she ultimately couldn’t abide by them, how her telling him stories about being with other guys started to destroy him, how and why their non monogamous relationship was bringing so up so jealousy and insecurity and how and why he wanted so hard to conquer that part of him, how he decided to use the the same techniques he used to train for sports to train himself to get over his jealousy and how and why it worked, how and why they eventually broke up plus a whole lot more. To get a FREEE copy of his book Seek the Risk email him (within one week after this episode airs) at [email protected] You can also buy the book here: https://www.seektherisk.net **To see anonymous pics of ADAM plus anonymous pics of my other female guests + gain access to my PRIVATE Discord channel where people get super naughty + get early access to all episodes + hear anonymous confessions, + gain access to my Discord channel, join my Patreon. It's only $5 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast Want to be on the show? Email me at [email protected] or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confesss? Call the hotline at 347-420-3579. Want a private convo with me that won't be aired on the show? All calls are private, confidential and anonymous. Click here: https://calendly.com/strictlyanonymouspodcast/45min Sponsors: Hear the hottest stories on Dipsea! 30 day FREE TRIAL https://www.dipseastories.com/strictlyanon Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Youtube https://www.youtube.com/c/StrictlyAnonymouspodcast Website http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices