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Gender: A Wider Lens

68 - Pioneers Series: Cultural Misunderstandings with Paul L. Vasey

Gender: A Wider Lens

Sasha Ayad and Stella O'Malley

Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Mental Health

4.6961 Ratings

🗓️ 25 March 2022

⏱️ 63 minutes

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Summary

This is the last episode in our pioneers series and the second interview with Dr. Paul Vasey. If you haven’t heard our conversation with Paul in episode 57, I recommend you go back and listen to that one first, as we build upon many of the ideas we introduced there. Today we continue reflecting on the way Western activism interacts with research and the interpretation of the fa’afafine, the muxe, and other third-gender individuals from different countries. We talk about the implications of the fact that the fa’afafine, for example, don’t try to identify as women and whether there are conflicting rights issues in Samoa. Paul also explains how Western funding organizations can end up imposing foreign concepts onto other cultures. We even touch on the implications for things like puberty blockers and early medical intervention.

It was a real pleasure to wrap up our series with Paul and we hope you’ll enjoy this interview and stick around next week for the post-series analysis with me and Stella.

Links:

“What can the Samoan ‘Fa’afafine’ teach us about the Western concept of gender identity disorder in childhood?” by Paul Vasey and Nancy Bartlett (2007).Pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/17951883/

Extended Notes

  • Stella and Sasha reflect on the last episode they had with Paul, having now the time to digest what they’ve learned so far in this series.
  • What is the implication of the fa’afafine to have their own gender category?
  • Fa’afafines having their own gender role consequently makes gender dysphoria uncommon in these cultural settings.
  • Paul talks about sports teams and how the fa’afafine participate in them as an example.
  • What is the Samoan’s opinion about today’s phenomenon of trans women competing in international sports?
  • Paul shares the impact the western culture has with the fa’afafine and the common questions he gets from them.
  • What is the most important thing we can learn from the Samoan culture?
  • Paul is skeptical about the imposition of ideas from other cultures to work when they don’t develop organically.
  • Gender-diverse individuals in non-Western cultures are commonly depicted in idealized terms but there is no such thing as a gender utopia. Paul talks about how he thinks that’s not the reality of their everyday lives.
  • What are the points of difference between fa’afafine and muxe? Paul shares what they are.
  • The similarities between fa’afafine and muxe mean there is a biological structure to same-sex attraction that can be culturally universal.
  • Sasha asks Paul how he addresses cultural relativism between different cultures.
  • Paul does not suggest that either conceptual framework for understanding male femininity and same-sex attraction is better or worse than the other. Each has its own benefits and costs.
  • In Samoa, male same-sex attraction doesn’t really mean anything. Paul explains this further.
  • Paul also talks about the statistics between Western gay people vs fa’afafine vs. muxe and their implications.
  • How do cultural influences contribute to ROGD? Paul shares his insights.
  • Talking about cross-cultural context, Paul highlights the importance of historical change through time in terms of what boyhood femininity means.
  • Paul uses the term female gynephilia as exclusive and explains why.
  • Paul mentions Paul Bailey and what he said about having less flexibility in men and what that implicates.
  • It’s natural for cultures to interact with each other and it’s natural to exchange ideas and concepts in order to evolve. But what happens when one culture imposes on another?
  • Paul often finds a lot of people who are outsiders of

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Transcript

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0:00.0

You're listening to gender, a wider lens.

0:04.0

I'm Stella O'Malley, a psychotherapist in Ireland.

0:06.5

And I'm Sasha Ayad, an adolescent therapist in the United States.

0:10.6

Since 2016, my practice has been exclusively dedicated to gender questioning teens

0:16.1

and families impacted by gender dysphoria.

0:19.0

I also work with gender questioning teenagers and I facilitated support meetings for families and

0:24.2

individuals who have been impacted by gender issues. We're curious about the

0:28.0

concept of gender and how it's unfolding in the wider culture. Join us as we look at gender through a wider lens.

0:37.0

This is the last episode in our pioneers series

0:41.0

and the second interview we did with Dr Paul Vasey.

0:44.0

If you haven't heard our conversation with Paul in episode 57,

0:48.0

I recommend you go back and listen to that one first

0:50.0

as we build on a lot of the ideas and concepts introduced there.

0:54.0

Today we continue reflecting on the way that Western activism interacts with research

0:59.0

and our interpretation of the Faffa fieni, the Moushe, and other third-gender individuals from different countries.

1:06.3

We talk about the implication of the fact that the Faffa-Fine, for example, don't actually identify

1:11.4

as women.

1:12.6

And we talk about whether there are conflicting rights issues in places like Samoa.

1:17.6

Paul also explains how Western funding organizations that mean well

1:21.7

can end up imposing foreign concepts onto other cultures.

1:25.0

We even touch on the implications for things like puberty blockers and early medical

1:29.7

intervention here in the West.

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