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breakup BOOST Advice to Get Over Your Ex & More

#68: Don't Play the Victim Role in Relationships & Your Life

breakup BOOST Advice to Get Over Your Ex & More

Trina Leckie

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🗓️ 1 May 2018

⏱️ 16 minutes

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Summary

The topic of this episode is "Don't Play the Victim Role in Relationships & Your Life".

In life, we all have things that happen to us. Good and bad. Awesome and terrible. Incredible and unfortunate. We can’t always control what will happen in life.

That’s the beauty of life though – if we knew the outcome of everything, there would be no element of surprise, no motivation to work hard, nothing to look forward to. Everything would be an open book, and frankly, that would be boring. So yes, we need to deal with shit sometimes, but EVERYONE does. That is part of being human.

My main message of this episode is when you find yourself in a less than desirable position, you want to stay away from saying: Why does this always happen to me?

Instead, ask yourself THIS question..........(you're going to have to press PLAY to find out...)

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Broken-hearted, feeling like the world is over, convinced you'll never meet anyone else.

0:10.0

Trina's breakup boost will help heal your heart and get you back in the dating saddle.

0:15.0

She'll give you straightforward opinions and advice for your love life.

0:20.0

Hi everyone, I wanted to start by happily announcing that you can now find the Breakup Boost podcast on Spotify.

0:27.0

Okay, so the topic of this episode is don't play the victim.

0:32.0

In life, we all have things that happen to us, good and bad.

0:37.8

Awesome and terrible, incredible and unfortunate.

0:43.0

We can't always control what will happen in life.

0:47.0

That's the beauty of life though,

0:49.0

because if we knew the outcome of everything,

0:51.0

there would be no element of of surprise no motivation to work hard

0:55.3

nothing to look forward to everything would be an open book and frankly that would be

1:01.2

pretty boring.

1:05.0

So yeah, so we need to deal with shit sometimes, but everybody does.

1:07.0

That is part of being human.

1:09.0

It doesn't matter if you're rich or poor or whatever you are, male or female,

1:12.0

everyone has stuff to deal with. Even if you think

1:16.0

you know people that have the perfect life trust me they don't. My main

1:20.4

message of this episode is when you find yourself in a less than desirable position,

1:25.2

you want to stay away from saying,

1:27.2

Why does this always happen to me?

1:30.7

For starters, always is a strong word and people usually like to exaggerate when using that word because not everything that has happened in your life thus far is bad.

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