67: How to have better arguments: Ian Leslie

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🗓️ 23 August 2021

⏱️ 67 minutes

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Writer Ian Leslie discusses how to argue better from his book Conflicted. We discuss the Wright Brothers, relationship scientists and much more. --- Thanks to my sponsor ExpressVPN. For an extra 3 months free with a subscription, and to be able to watch shows in different countries, go to expressvpn.com/edge. Get the ads-free early-access episodes, as well as the bonus extra episode each week by subbing on Apple Subscriptions or going to patreon.com/andrewgold --- Ian Leslie Links: Buy the book Conflicted: https://www.amazon.co.uk/Conflicted-Arguments-Tearing-Apart-Together/dp/0571346944 Read Ian's substack, The Ruffian: https://ianleslie.substack.com Follow Ian on Twitter: https://twitter.com/mrianleslie Andrew Gold Links: http://youtube.com/andrewgold1 http://instagram.com/andrewgold_ok http://twitter.com/andrewgold_ok http://andrewgoldpodcast.com http://medium.com/@andrewgold1 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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1:07.0	Who is up for an argument?
1:11.0	Well today on the show Ian Leslie introduces us to the ideas in his
1:15.2	acclaimed book conflicted, the premise being that we are not arguing as much in real life as we once
1:21.8	were, social media aside of course and that we can once were, social media aside of course, and that we can have better arguments
1:26.1	in relationships with friends and at work if we follow certain codes of conduct.
1:31.7	In his book Ian talks to everyone from hostage
1:34.0	negotiators to relationship scientists to get to the crux of the argument and how we
1:39.2	can have more productive disagreements. It's a fascinating book that has taught me a lot so I'm
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