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Earn Your Happy

669. 3 Things to Make You Better in Leadership AND Relationships

Earn Your Happy

Lori Harder

Entrepreneurship, Business

4.82.8K Ratings

🗓️ 16 February 2021

⏱️ 29 minutes

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Summary

In This Episode You Will Learn About: The commonalities between leadership and relationships Giving feedback in the moment Being honest, open, and building trust What gets recognized gets repeated   Resources: Visit outstandingfoods.com/lori or use code LORI for 25% off your first order! Show Notes: There are some common threads between being a good leader and being a good romantic partner. Nobody is going to be great at either when they’re just starting out — just think back to your first relationship and I’m sure you’ll agree — but with some intentional practice, we can become better leaders and better partners at the same time. Give feedback in the moment Nothing is worse than letting a grievance sit and then coming back to it after the other person has moved on. Some people get over things much more quickly than others. If you try to bring something up later, the other person may get confused, defensive, or angry. And small things left unaddressed continue to build up until they become a huge roadblock in your relationship. That can all be avoided by bringing it up in the moment. Being honest, open, and building trust Building off of that last point, giving feedback in the moment is what is going to make people learn to trust you. Being honest also empowers other people around you to open up and be their best, and that is the sign of a good relationship in business AND life. What gets recognized gets repeated When you see the kind of behavior you want, you have to work to recognize it in a way that acknowledges the other person. This will help that behavior stick and give further clarity to the types of behaviors you want. This also opens the trust door for feedback and makes it easier to breach the conversation around what can be improved. If you take in these three tips, you’re going to make it a lot of the way towards being great in both leadership AND relationships.

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0:00.0

Hey everyone, it's that time of year again.

0:05.6

Everybody's talking about forming new habits, new you, new life.

0:10.6

You guys, change your habits, change your life, right?

0:13.1

That's all we talk about.

0:14.5

And I'm sure you've started some new habits this year.

0:16.5

I know that I have, but how are you going to track those habits?

0:19.8

Because what you don't measure doesn't get results.

0:23.0

And have you ever wondered which of your habits are the most important and how often should

0:27.2

you track?

0:28.2

And how do you make them weekly, monthly?

0:30.2

A lot of people know that they need to improve their habits, but they don't know where to start.

0:34.2

I have suffered with this as well.

0:36.2

And that's why I think you're going to love growth day.

0:38.2

It's the world's number one self improvement system.

0:41.2

I have committed to using it daily.

0:44.2

If you go watch my stories, you're going to see that I have been using their journaling system

0:49.2

and their tracking system.

0:50.2

And I am obsessed.

0:51.2

This is something that I do in my life.

0:53.2

Chris has committed with me.

0:55.2

I have proven habits that lead to long-term success, well-being, and positive relationships.

1:00.2

You can get a free trial at growthday.com.

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