66 approaches so far, no dates yet.

What am I doing wrong, coach?

I look overweight in my photos.

Well, the one thing you have control over and the controllables, if you will, is physical fitness.

So if you want to lose weight, if you want to get fit, you got to lift weights.

It doesn't have to be, you don't have to be big and bulky, but you should be fit and trim, and you can

wear tight-fitting clothes, and women can tell that you work out. If you're significantly

overweight, I mean, at the end of the day, 74% of all Americans are obese or overweight.

So if you can get fit and in shape, you're already better looking than most of your competition out there.

So that's one thing you have control over.

And so it's a numbers game at the end of the day.

When you first start, you're not going to be very good at it.

You're going to probably come off as kind of weird and awkward and the conversations aren't going to flow. But what you're looking for is enthusiasm. And typically when you're first starting out, you're going to be approaching a lot of girls who really have no interest in talking to you. And they're even given off the vibe, but you don't know what you don't know. You don't really know what to look for.

And so like I talk about is that, you know, when you go to like beer and wine festivals

or like an October fest kind of thing or an art festival, is like what you're looking for

is women that will look you in the eye and smile.

That's typically the cue that they at least, you pass the physical attraction test. Women that are taken or married or in a relationship or you just, they don't like you or they don't want to the approach, they won't make eye contact with you. Because most women know, as soon as you smile at a guy and when you're looking at his eyes, he's going to think, likes me wants to sleep with me and then he comes over and starts chatting with you so women and you'll notice

especially like in grocery stores women that are taken you'll walk by and you're like wow you'll be

thinking man she's really hot and you're looking at her eyes or in her eyes and she'll walk by you

like you're not even look in your direction because she knows you're checking her out

and she's trying to say, don't approach me, I'm taken or I'm not interested or whatever.

But if you approach the women that at least make eye contact and smile,

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