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The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-

#656: Why You're Getting Average Results (And What to Do About It)

The Confidence Podcast: Confidence Tips for Self-Esteem, Self-Worth, Self-Love, Self-Confidence and Courage to Overcome Self-

Trish Blackwell | Life Coach, Confidence Coach, Mindset Coach

Impostorsyndrome, Education, Positivepsychology, Christianity, Confidencecoach, Christianlifecoach, Religion & Spirituality, Christianmentalhealth, Self-improvement, Eatingdisorders, Confidence, Accountabilitycoaching, Bodyimage

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🗓️ 17 June 2025

⏱️ 26 minutes

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Summary

You’re not average — but your results might be. And it’s not because you’re lazy, unmotivated, or unclear. In this episode, we’re breaking down the quiet ways high achievers sabotage their success: from half-committing, to making micro-excuses, to hiding from their own greatness.

 

You’ll learn why driven people often fear being average — but also resist believing they’re extraordinary. If you’ve been feeling stuck at a plateau or tired of getting “meh” results that don’t reflect your potential, this conversation will light a fire under you.

It’s time to rewire how you show up — and finally start getting the results that match who you really are.

 

 

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Transcript

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0:00.0

Okay, so you're probably someone with super high standards. You set big goals. You have high expectations of yourself.

0:08.1

And you want to make a real impact. You want to excel. And yet, you still feel like you're fighting and getting average results.

0:16.4

Or you're so afraid that you're doing all these things and it's just enough to kind of be okay,

0:21.3

that you've struggled to actually see yourself for as extraordinary as you are.

0:27.4

Not because you're average, not even close, but because there's some sneaky patterns at play.

0:34.0

Half commitment, micro excuses, comparing yourself to others, perfectionism in disguise.

0:39.7

And here's a truth that not a lot of people are talking about that we're going to talk about

0:43.1

today is that high achievers are so afraid of being average, but we're resistant to admitting

0:51.2

that we're extraordinary. Because if you owned your greatness, it would be too vulnerable.

0:56.1

And then they would put pressure.

0:57.6

And you haven't learned how to manage that pressure.

0:59.7

So in this episode, we're calling it out.

1:02.1

We're going to talk about the exact reasons why you're playing smaller than you think.

1:07.0

How I'll start tomorrow or I need to do more is destroying your momentum and why your micro

1:13.9

excuses are costing you in macro results.

1:18.7

If you're putting a lot of pressure on yourself to do more and you're afraid that you're

1:24.3

just average, you're afraid that you don't stand out as much as you want to. This episode is for you. You're listening to the Confidence Podcast, where we do

1:32.8

confidence coaching for driven high achieving women who want more, because high achieving women

1:39.1

deserve high level confidence. I'm your host, Trish Blackwell. Let's get started. Hey guys, welcome to the

1:46.6

Confidence Podcast. You're listening to Episode 6506, why you're getting average results. I'm Trish Blackwell,

1:56.1

your confidence coach. And let's just start, the fact that you care if you're average or not means you're

2:02.5

not average. But the reason we're having this conversation is because I, in my one-on-one practice,

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