What's up, girls night gang? Welcome to another episode of Girls Night with Raven and Alexis. Unfortunately, today you'll only have O-A-X-S-A-K-Me.

So if you don't like me, see ya. Just kidding. Raven is super busy right now with her wedding planning. She's finally going to the chapel, baby. I'm so excited for her and Adam.

I am so excited for the next chapter of her life. I have seen, I've been there for the entire ride so I am so excited. And currently me, I'm in bed hungover from Miami. So this is where I'm at in life. I don't know what happened or when I started to change because I cannot hang anymore.

I drink one night. I am hungover for four days. Like this body cannot be the same body that used to rage and go to three day music festivals. I used to go to ultra for three days. I would wear bedazzled bras so embarrassing. I used to go to EDC for three days.

I don't know. I go out one night. I don't understand what's happening to me. I cannot move. I'm still struggling so hard from this weekend. It is now Tuesday, but you know, this is just what's getting getting older is all about.

What a time to be alive. It was my birthday this past week. So Tyler surprised me with the trip to Miami, which was an absolute shit show.

My mom wanted to kill me for going down there, but I was like, I'm going on. It's my birthday being the breath that I am and we ended up going to South Beach and it was

so packed crazy. And I felt so bad because Tyler had shoulder surgery. So he couldn't be in a crowd because people were bumping into him. Meanwhile, I was dancing till 5 a.m. So he's a trooper. And I love him for taking me there. And I also spend time with my dad in Fort Lauderdale, who I haven't seen in almost a year. So we spent two days with him in Fort Lauderdale, which was amazing.

He is the most amazing man in the world. If anybody from the girls night gang knows somebody around 50 years old loves Jesus doesn't drink loves Florida and the Miami dolphins hit me up because I need to hook my dad up with someone.

My mom and him divorced when I was two years old like I still don't understand how I am in this world because they are complete opposites. So anybody knows anybody single that lives in the Florida area and is a sweet nice soul that we can hook up my dad with.

Please slide into my DM because I really want him to find somebody. It really broke my heart when I was leaving and he just was like, I came home and nobody was there and I was just like, he deserves the world. He deserves to have a partner to share this life with because I just love him so much when he cried at the airport. I was just like, I can't.

But anyways, Miami was fun. I met met up with Dilo. Daniel Lombard from the bachelor met her boyfriend. He's awesome. So happy. She found love Ravens getting married, Dilo's in love. I'm in love. What is going on. This is insane. Literally, I always say that Nick file was good luck Chuck because every one of the girls from the show found love after dating Nick via like we all need to thank Nick via because he.

Brought us to our loved ones, the ones we're going to marry. So but Nick file actually has a boy boyfriend. Oh my god. I really has a girlfriend now and she's really hot. So let's I'm so happy for you Nick and honestly, I feel like he's getting cooler as.

As time goes on, I think, I don't know, I'm the bachelor not so much, but now I think he's getting a little maybe he's maturing. I mean guys mature a lot later in life. So let's clap it up for Nick file and thank you for giving us all our future husband. So thank you Nick via.

Anyway, so I was just trying to think, think of a topic that we can talk about today since Christina showman was supposed to be my guest today, but she bailed so fuck her. No, I'm kidding. I love you, Christina, but she's just super busy with I think probably doing revolve around the world. She's probably revolving around the world. But she ditched me. So it's just me and I was thinking of things that I can talk about and I was just realizing.

How hard it was how hard it is just being a woman like just getting ready for Miami to get my nails done hair done. I had a full blown.

UTI and my period before I was when I was trying to get pampered before Miami, I was in so much pain. So funny story, not so funny. I had the UTI maybe two weeks ago and I was taking the antibiotics that I got when I got bit by a drug had no idea that there was different forms of antibiotics. So that's my life.

So I was taking the wrong antibiotic. So I had a UTI for a full blown three weeks.

Yeah, so that was my life. And then right before my birthday, I just got super emotional. I don't know. I was getting anxiety just because I just I like my birthday, but I've been having really bad birthdays for the past four years. So I was just like, oh my god, I'm going to have another bad one.

And I just always feel like the pressure of being at a certain age, you need to be engaged, married, having babies, it's like, fuck that. I want to be I want to do whatever I want to do. I don't want to have a label on anything like I have a boyfriend, I don't need to be engaged any time soon. I don't need to be married anytime soon. I don't need to have a child.

And it's just like, if once you get engaged, everybody's like, when are you getting married, then when you're married, they're like, when are you having children, then you have one, they're like, are you guys going to have another one? It's like, shut the fuck up, leave us alone.

Does anybody feel that way? Or is it just me? Because on my birthday, my mom and grandma both called me and just asked me a thousand times, like, you know, like, maybe even Tao should just become a team. And I'm like, we already are a team.

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