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Highest Self Podcast®

642: How To Date As A Spiritual Woman- Limerance, Dating Apps + Non-Negotiables with Sahara Rose

Highest Self Podcast®

Sahara Rose

Spirituality, Mental Health, Religion & Spirituality, Health & Fitness

4.86.2K Ratings

🗓️ 18 February 2026

⏱️ 75 minutes

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Summary

Ladies, we have been long overdue for a spiritual dating episode. So grab your chai, your matcha, your live spring water, whatever you're drinking, and get real comfortable. Because dating is the ultimate spiritual initiation and I have learned a thing or two.

 

I asked on Instagram what your biggest questions were and you wanted to talk limerence, dating apps, non-negotiables and so much more. 

 

In this episode, we explore:

💫 Why the fuckboys you're attracting are actually a mirror of your consciousness

🔥 What limerence really is and what your obsessive crush is pointing you toward

🌊 How to build a dating profile that attracts your actual person

🗡️ Why chemistry matters but the perfect guy doesn't exist

🦜 How to know your true non-negotiables versus what you just think you want

 

We talk about why you can only have limerence around someone who isn't choosing you back. Why your body always knows before your mind does. Why the list of who he needs to be matters way less than how you feel with him. And why instead of waiting for the God-man on the full moon, sometimes you just gotta go around, fuck around, and find out.

 

This is the dating masterclass your big sis never gave you.

 

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Transcript

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0:00.0

We have this image in our mind. This is when we get very, very specific by what we're calling in.

0:03.7

We're like, I want this guy. He's this height. He looks like this. We do spiritual practice. We travel

0:07.6

the world. But we're not finding it. And I find it's when you start to realize like my desire for

0:15.5

love and for being in love is stronger than my desire for it to be with this specific person from my list who I

0:23.6

haven't met. So you kind of have to realize that you can be this like Rapunzel waiting in her

0:31.0

castle forever or you got to go around and fuck around and find out.

0:35.8

Trust flows when to let go. I'm around and find out. Welcome back to the high cell podcast.

0:56.3

My name is Sahar Rose and on this podcast, I love to talk about spirituality, matters of the heart, but make it modern, fun, grounded, and relatable so it can actually serve your needs.

1:06.4

So, girls, we've been long overdue for a spiritual dating episode. I did one like two years ago

1:13.5

in my pink little 2000s jumpsuit. I'll link the episode or if you want the outfit below.

1:20.9

And so much has shifted since then. So I feel like being a little big sis to you right now

1:26.3

and just, you know,

1:27.6

spilling the tea.

1:28.6

Let's get our, our chai, our machas, our live spring waters, whatever we're drinking

1:34.7

and get real comfortable here because I feel like dating is the ultimate spiritual initiation.

1:42.9

Like the way we see ourself mirrored, unheeled, as well to the

1:47.0

self, what we're willing to settle with, what we're not our perfection, all of it. It's such a

1:51.9

freaking mirror. And I know so many of us have recently gone through really big breakups,

1:57.5

Dark Knights of the Souls, divorces, and have done really deep healing work and have

2:03.6

sprung out the other side as these shiny, bright iterations of ourselves that are like complete

2:09.5

baddies. And now we're like, who am I going to date? Like, who's ever going to meet me? And so I feel

2:15.8

you. And I've learned a thing or two. So I asked on my Instagram,

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