Welcome to Ghost of a Podcast. I'm your host, Jessica Lignato. I'm an astrologer, psychic medium, and animal communicator. And I'm going to give you your weekly horoscope and no bullshit, mystical advice for living your very best life.

Duffer, welcome to the podcast. What are we going to be looking at today? Well, thank you so much.

Jessica, I'm going to read the question that I wrote. I started by saying, and would love to say to you in

person, thank you so much for your activism, your humanity, and your deep, deep caring. It's so

appreciated, and I am very lucky and grateful for all you share

with the world. Thank you. I wrote, can you help me communicate well with my brand new. We just got

married. We eloped to Brooklyn two weeks ago yesterday. Wife. Congratulations. Thank you so much about our money,

finances, and just sort of melding our lives. We're both 50 plus. We're sort of late in life

loves. We've been together a couple years. And we're navigating now, blending families,

moving in together. We're selling one house, going to go to another,

maybe going to buy a different one altogether, and we have three teenagers, and we're going to

have six cats between us. So that's a lot. And we're combining our forces, but both bringing

our hangups and habits, you know, from childhood and our lives. My sense is that we approach

things really differently, and we've already

bumped up against a few painful, difficult, fearful spot. So I'd love your take on how to

compassionately address these sort of fraught areas of life without, in my case, dropping into

defensiveness or shutting down and, you know, finding our way together through this joyful but difficult.

Okay. So fucking congratulations and happy bride, right? So how long have the two of you been together?

We got married on our two year anniversary. Okay, so two years. And were you living together before?

We have not yet been living together. Okay, so you're not yet living together. Correct. Okay, bold move.

Okay. It's very bold. Okay, so you said three kids. So gay. So gay. Three kids. Who's got how many kids? I have one. He is age 19 in a few months. Okay. And she has two. Okay. And are they 17 and 19? So your kids are the same age? We're all in a range. Yeah, yeah. Mine's in the middle of them,

you know, it's about one year, one year, one year, is. That's amazing. Okay. And so are all the kids

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