634 - HOW do they apologize? (don't overlook the red flags)

New Mindset, Who Dis?

Case Kenny

Motivation, Selfhelp, Mindset, Education, Self-improvement, Health & Fitness, Wellness, Relationships, Mental Health, Inspiration, Personaldevelopment, Society & Culture

4.9 • 6K Ratings

🗓️ 23 September 2024

⏱️ 17 minutes

🔗️ Recording | iTunes | RSS

🧾️ Download transcript

Summary

In this episode, I talk about the keys to a genuine apology. I talk about how to know if it's a heartfelt apology or just an attempt to avoid accountability. My book, "That's Bold of you" is available on Amazon. Instagram: @case.kenny

Transcript

Click on a timestamp to play from that location

0:00.0	Hello and welcome to the new Mindset Who-This podcast. My name is Case Kenny at
0:06.2	Case. Cany on Instagram and this is my weekly podcast where I create short no-BS episodes
0:12.0	dedicated to helping you become the person you're meant to be leave
0:15.6	your comfort zone and live a purposeful and fulfilling life.
0:19.6	Let's go. Oh, All right. Welcome to episode 634. Hello my friend. Welcome to a fresh new episode of New Mindsethudis.
0:55.0	As always, thank you so much for listening.
0:57.0	Thank you for supporting me and today.
0:59.0	I want to talk about what I think is the strongest sign of emotional intelligence, emotional maturity, the strongest sign that you're with a partner or you're with a friend who can grow with you, who understands you, who is patient with you, who will stand by you in the same way you do all of those things for them.
1:16.7	And it's not knowing somehow that that person will never hurt you or always be aware of their actions and how they affect you.
1:25.0	It's not expecting someone to have emotional intelligence to the highest level,
1:30.1	the greatest amount of emotional maturity possible and as a result they rarely
1:33.8	disappoint you. It's not that. That would be perfection and isn't realistic.
1:39.7	Rather, it's that you are with someone who has emotional intelligence and emotional maturity and as a result when they do inevitably
1:48.4	Hurt you unintentionally or disappoint you or they make you feel a certain negative way they know how to
1:56.7	apologize they know how to admit when they're wrong. Apologizing.
2:04.0	There is an art to the apology.
2:06.0	Apologizing is not a sign of immaturity.
2:09.0	Needing to apologize is not an immaturity.
2:11.0	It's not a sign of wrongness.
2:12.0	It's not a sign of wrongness, it's not a sign of inadequacy, it's not a sign that something's wrong with someone when they need to apologize.
2:17.6	And I want to do this episode to talk about the power of apologies done the right way,
2:22.2	because I saw something that Esther Perrell wrote. of apologies done the right way.
	...

Please login to see the full transcript.

Previous episode | Next episode

Disclaimer: The podcast and artwork embedded on this page are from Case Kenny, and are the property of its owner and not affiliated with or endorsed by Tapesearch.

Generated transcripts are the property of Case Kenny and are distributed freely under the Fair Use doctrine. Transcripts generated by Tapesearch are not guaranteed to be accurate.