Yo today's QOT is trust is built in very small moments

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Welcome back to the quarter of the day show. I'm your hope Sean Crox and the Sean Crox and calm. We've got

Brunei Brown finally back on the show and today she's going to share a brilliant and I mean brilliant

lesson on trust marble jars and sliding doors. Here's Brunei. One day my daughter Ellen came home

from school. She was in third grade and the minute we closed the front door she literally just

started sobbing and slid down the door until she was just kind of a heap of crying on the floor

and of course I was scared me and I said what's wrong Ellen what happened what happened

and she pulled herself together enough to say I something really hard happened to me today at school

and I shared it with a couple of my friends during recess and by the time we got back into the

classroom everyone in my class knew what had happened and they were laughing and pointing at me

and calling me names and it was so bad and the kids were being so disruptive that her teacher even

had to take marbles out of this marble jar and the marble jar in the classroom is a jar where if

the kids are making great be you know great choices together the teacher adds marbles if they're

making not great choices the teacher takes out marbles and if the jar gets filled up there's a

celebration about the for the class and so she said it was one of the worst moments of my life they

were laughing and pointing and Miss Bacchum my teacher kept saying I'm gonna take marbles out you

know and she didn't know what was happening and she looked at me and she just with this face that

is just seared into my mind and said I will never trust anyone again and my first reaction to be

really honest with you was damn straight you don't tell anybody anything but your mama

yeah right that's it I mean that was my that was my like you just you just tell me and when you

grow up and you go off to school mama will go to I'll get a little apartment and the other thing

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