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Beauty Bytes with Dr. Kay: Secrets of a Plastic Surgeon™

626: Tips & Tricks for Raising Kids

Beauty Bytes with Dr. Kay: Secrets of a Plastic Surgeon™

Kay Durairaj, MD, FACS @beautybydrkay

Medicine, Management & Marketing, Fashion & Beauty, Arts, Health & Fitness, Business

4.9608 Ratings

🗓️ 17 May 2024

⏱️ 16 minutes

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Summary

Discipline, Rewards, Freedom, Punishment - Join us in this week's Five Minute Friday where Dr. Kay shares valuable tips for motherhood and raising children in today's fast-paced world! Drawing from her own experiences as a mother of four, she emphasizes the importance of providing children with opportunities for exploration and freedom while maintaining a balance of structure and discipline. Dr. Kay advocates for delaying the introduction of devices to children, fostering a love for reading, and implementing creative yet constructive forms of discipline such as writing essays when they do something wrong or copying pages out of the dictionary. She underscores the significance of nurturing self-worth and self-acceptance in children while instilling a sense of responsibility and accountability. Tune in for practical advice and encouragement to all mothers who are helping shape the future generation!

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0:00.0

Well, hello, hello, guys. You're listening to Beauty Bites with Dr. K., Secrets of a Plastic Surgeon. And it's time for a five-minute Friday.

0:23.4

Well, we just finished Mother's Day.

0:26.1

And being a mother of four, I thought it would be great if I could give you guys tips for motherhood and mothering.

0:34.6

So many of my listeners are working people. We are people who are trying to raise

0:40.9

children in this crazy chaotic life of ours. And every little mothering tip helps. So from my

0:47.8

mother's out there, I'm going to tell you some of my top tips for raising good children and, you know, letting them turn into great humans,

0:57.0

great people. So I think my mothering technique, of course, stems from my mom's influence.

1:03.8

And I'm so happy to say I had a childhood which was absent of devices and, you know, really

1:10.7

freeing in the sense that we were running around

1:13.1

the neighborhood, going to people's houses without permission, and exploring nature, fields,

1:18.9

houses around us. And that was maybe growing up in the 80s and 90s like I did. But in this day and

1:26.0

age, we're also careful with our children. But I want to encourage

1:29.0

you guys to let your children explore and to let them have some freedoms. The best summers of our

1:36.6

lives were spent up at Lake Arrowhead where the kids were let run free around the lake. We went to

1:43.4

UCLA Bruinwood, so there was some supervision, but they had

1:47.4

such autonomy. They were given card keys. They were allowed to go in and out of their room and

1:53.7

make friends, stay out late a little bit. So a little bit of controlled freedom is a great idea for

1:59.7

your kids. Another thing that's a big

2:02.8

important one is not giving your kids devices too soon. And I did not give any of my kids' iPhones

2:09.3

until they were in ninth grade. And believe me, I heard it every single day about every kid

2:15.5

in the school, has a phone except for me. And my

2:19.1

response was generally, well, then borrow theirs. Or, you know, I need a phone after school. What if I

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