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Highest Self Podcast®

624: When To Surrender - And When Not To: The Paradox Of Spiritual Truths with Sahara Rose

Highest Self Podcast®

Sahara Rose

Mental Health, Wellness, Spirituality, Millennial, Religion & Spirituality, Meditation, Health & Fitness, Ayurveda, Manifestation, Purpose, Ascension

4.86K Ratings

🗓️ 14 October 2025

⏱️ 61 minutes

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Summary

We hear the word “surrender” all the time in spirituality, but what does it actually mean?

 

For most of my life, surrender didn’t make sense. My mom fled war in Iran, my dad too, and everything I learned growing up was about fighting for freedom, not giving in. So when people said “just surrender,” I thought it meant giving up.

 

It wasn’t until my marriage ended that I learned what real surrender was. I didn’t have a choice anymore. I had to trust that Spirit was guiding me somewhere greater, even if I couldn’t see where. That moment opened the door to a year of complete flow. I left everything behind, traveled the world with one suitcase, and discovered new archetypes within myself that I never knew existed.

 

But eventually, I realized there’s a paradox in all of this. If we only surrender, we can lose direction. If we only control, we block the magic. The truth is, we need both.

 

✨ In this episode, I explore:

  • What surrender really means and how it shows up in our lives
  • The balance between trusting the universe and taking aligned action
  • The archetypes of “Surrender Sarita” and “Control Candace”
  • How to know when life is asking you to release versus when it’s time to focus
  • Why both structure and flow are needed to create your dharma

This conversation is a reminder that surrender isn’t about giving up. It’s about trusting that Spirit may have a bigger plan than the one you made for yourself.

 

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Transcript

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I left that apartment in Miami where the suitcase, ended up living out of that suitcase for over a year,

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traveling to Egypt and Trinidad and all these different places, like no home base, no apartment,

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literally just going from one destination to the next, being guided by a source that was beyond me.

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And every single place I went to, it was like I was meeting a new archetype, a new version of myself.

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And I started to realize why, like why I needed to meet the side of me that needed to die in Egypt,

0:28.1

and the other part of me that needed to dance and be wild and free in Trinidad and another part of me that needed to go so deep and heal in Sedona.

0:34.8

And the list went on.

0:36.5

And I started to realize that the universe had

0:39.2

plans for me that I could have never planned for myself. And in that process of literally throwing

0:45.3

away any old identity or belief I had around who I was, I decided to be the opposite. I'm like,

0:53.1

I'm going to feel everything to the depth

0:55.6

and the core. And it was like this radical aliveness that was coming alive in me. Welcome back. Welcome back. I'm the

1:18.6

Hiroarer Rose and this is the highest self podcast, a place where we make spirituality,

1:23.9

modern, fun, and relatable so it can actually serve your needs. If you're new to the podcast,

1:29.8

welcome. I love to dive deep into these little existential topics that I think about in the

1:35.5

attic of my mind and bring them forth into this expression because I feel like a lot of us have

1:41.0

been tip-be towing over the same core themes and patterns in our life.

1:45.4

And in this episode, I really want to dive deep into the path of surrender.

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