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Mental Illness Happy Hour

#617 Anger & Trauma - Thomas Hayes

Mental Illness Happy Hour

Paul Gilmartin

Health & Fitness, Relationships, Society & Culture, Mental Health, Sexuality

4.86.1K Ratings

🗓️ 11 November 2022

⏱️ 94 minutes

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Summary

Thomas Hayes is a modern furniture designer and a friend of Paul’s. He opens up about the emotional incest, violence, and sexual abuse he experienced in his childhood and how he works through the anger that it’s left him with as an adult. 


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0:00.0

This episode is sponsored by Wondrium.

0:05.0

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0:13.0

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0:18.1

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0:21.4

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0:33.4

he fought the government with his music.

0:37.8

He was incredibly brave and he also had these personal deemons in this dark side that

0:43.4

could be really repulsive in ways.

0:46.0

So I think it's a complex figure and I think really kind of what runs through the whole thing is metal health.

0:53.0

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0:58.0

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1:19.0

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1:31.0

Welcome to episode 617 with my guest and friend Thomas Hayes.

1:36.0

I'm Paul Gilmarton, this is the metal illness happy hour.

1:38.4

We're a place for honesty about all the bullshit rattling around in our skulls, this podcast, is not meant to be a substitute for professional mental counseling.

1:47.4

I am not a therapist.

1:52.4

I've been reading the young winner, the guy who created or co-created the magazine Rolling Stone,

1:59.4

very influential figure of the from late 60s through probably even the 90s, very driven guy.

2:09.4

He put out an autobiography that I started reading and it started annoying me so much that I switched to a book

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